Becoming a team

Hi-res-148452209_crop_650x440“Christ makes us one body and individuals who are connected to each other” (Romans 12:5 GW).

The USA Men’s Olympic Basketball team seems destined for a gold medal in London in 2012, but nothing should be taken for granted. The one thing that we’ve learned is that just sending a bunch of NBA stars to the Olympics isn’t enough to guarantee a gold. They actually have to play as a team in order to win.

After the 2004 team lost to Argentina, Sports Illustrated reported: “The Americans won’t be the Olympic basketball champions for the first time since 1988, beaten by an Argentine team that lacks stars but simply knows how to play together better” (“End of An Era,” Sports Illustrated, August 27, 2004).

In basketball it seems that team trumps talent. It’s no longer enough to just have the most talented players. They have to be able to play together. They have to be willing to humbly play a team role. They must learn to rely on each other.

It’s not just America’s basketball program that needs to learn this lesson about the importance of teamwork. It’s American Christians and American churches too.

Following Christ isn’t an individual “sport” either. Sure, we come to Christ individually. No one can make the decision to follow for us. Each one must decide for themselves. But coming, we join His band of disciples. We become a member of Christ’s body.

If we want to truly follow Christ and answer His call, then we will join His team. We will discover our Spiritual gifts and offer them to fulfill our unique role in His church. We will serve and give, humbly and sacrificially. We will network with other churches and organizations. We will be willing to become a team, connected by the Spirit of Christ in us.

Who gets your gold medal?

2012-olympic-medalsCelebrate God all day, every day. I mean, revel in him!” (Philippians 4:4 Msg).

Have you been staying up past your bedtime to celebrate with those who have won gold medals this week? Every evening NBC has ordered up their coverage in such a way that leaves us hanging on until Midnight to see if the USA gets to take the medal stand. They have certainly hooked me and my wife. We’ve stayed up late every night to see who gets the gold and who sings along with the National Anthem.

Whether you’re hooked on the Olympics or not, everyone loves a good celebration. And speaking of love, we tend to celebrate what or whom we love.

What or who are you celebrating? What’s causing you to stand and wave your arms? What makes you shout and sing? Where are you seeing fireworks, blowing out candles, giving gifts, awarding medals… what do you celebrate?

Celebration is like worship. We recognize that something or someone is worthy and then we give them what they’re worth. We celebrate. We worship. That’s what humans do.

But without the love of God in our hearts, we celebrate lesser things. The Bible calls this idolatry. Idolatry is celebrating, worshiping anyone or anything ahead of God or in place of God.

According to Jesus, the greatest commandment is to “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength” (Mark 12:30). Loving God “with all” doesn’t mean that you can’t love anything or anyone else, but it does mean that you must love God first and most.

When it comes to who you love and celebrate, God deserves your gold medal.

Three Simple Commitments

So let’s keep focused on that goal, those of us who want everything God has for us. If any of you have something else in mind, something less than total commitment, God will clear your blurred vision—you’ll see it yet! Now that we’re on the right track, let’s stay on it” (Philippians 3:15-16 The Message).

“‘Come, follow me,’ Jesus said, ‘and I will make you fishers of men.'”(Matthew 4:19 NIV84).

I have noticed two opposite extremes in our generation concerning commitment. The first is a real hesitancy to commit to anything. We see this in many areas, but one of the most obvious is our generation’s fear of commitment as regards marriage. Men, especially exhibit this lack of commitment when they expect to live with a woman and experience all the benefits without the responsibility of a life fully devoted to one another in a marriage covenant.

The other extreme that I’ve observed is a tendency to over-commit. This person says “yes” to everything. They commit themselves to so much that they are unable to fulfill any of their commitments. The net result in some ways is similar to the first extreme. Committing to everything is like committing to nothing. Making real commitments that we actually keep means we have to say “no” to lesser things.

The apostle Paul points us towards how we might determine what these commitments should be. He talks about keeping a “focused” and “total commitment.” This involves asking God to give you a “clear vision” to know how to totally commit to a few important things.

The call of Jesus gives us the foundation for all our other commitments. He called his disciples to a simple, focused commitment to follow him. Looking at his call in Matthew, there appears to be three simple commitments implied in this following of Jesus:

  1. A commitment to celebrate God’s Son (He calls us to “come” to him, leaving behind our own priorities and worshiping him with priority).
  2. A commitment to connect to God’s people (He calls us to “follow him,” not a religion or a list of commandments, but to himself. He calls us to a relationship with him and his disciples).
  3. A commitment to contribute to God’s kingdom (He calls us to an adventure, to be “fishers of men,” making the proclamation of God’s kingdom our life’s pursuit).

There’s real power for life-change in making a few focused and simple commitments to Jesus. Are you ready to commit?

Are you a hindrance?

132932183_d28119522b“Jesus said, ‘Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven'” (Matthew 19:14 ESV).

“What do you want to be when you grow up?” The teacher asked her first graders.

“I want to be a police officer!” Shouted a little boy down front, while frantically waving his hand for the teacher’s attention.

“Next time, wait until I call on you Johnny.” The teacher admonished. “But wanting to be a police officer is a good thing. I bet you would be great at it!”

Johnny smiled and nodded his head at the teacher’s approval. He was happy that she liked his career choice.

Good teachers and parents want to affirm their children’s aspirations. They don’t want to “hinder” their dreams.

Yet, we often “hinder” our child’s spiritual receptivity. Whether intentional or not, we can be a hindrance to our children coming to Christ.

Here are just a few ways that we can “hinder” our children in coming to Jesus:

  • Having an attitude that children are beneath your “adult” talk of faith.
  • Your own lack of belief or poor example.
  • Any false teaching that casts doubt on God’s Word
  • The weight and priority that you give to following God.
  • The kind of example you give of a father (Earthly fathers affect a child’s view of their Heavenly Father).
  • (In the church) A lack of committed teachers and volunteers for children’s ministry.
  • (In the church) Not enough space and resources given to children’s ministry.

The truth is that children are more receptive to believing in God than adults. Growing older and being more exposed to worldly things does not increase their spiritual receptivity. It lowers it.

Children are the most open to the gospel of all people.

How do you think you are doing at “letting the little children come” to Jesus? How do you think our church is doing?

Do you see any hindrances?

 

 

 

Messed up in Guatemala

Guatemala 310“I thank my God every time I remember you. In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus” (Philippians 1:3-6 NIV).

We’re proud of our Guatemala Mission Team. We sent 13 of our very best WCCers to work, serve and teach in a Church school in Guatemala City. They’ve been there all week. They will finish up their 10-day trip and return to the States this Saturday.

I’ve loved reading their daily blog posts and seeing the photos of our team. I can’t help but be moved spiritually and emotionally as I read about their experiences with the children and school teachers.

I’ve also been moved hearing how close this team has grown to one another. There is something powerful about being “partners in the gospel.” There is a joy and a oneness that the Holy Spirit causes to bubble up inside when we work together for the sake of the gospel.

Before our Guatemala Team left, we commissioned them. In my commissioning prayer, I prayed that they would get so “messed-up” for Jesus on this trip that they would come home and get us “messed up” too.

“Messed-up?” You ask.

Yes, I’m praying that God so messes up their comfort zones, their worldviews, and their hearts, that they bring their messed up selves back home and can’t go back to their normal lives. I’m praying that they are ruined for this world and only have eyes for the Kingdom of God.

Looking at the faces they’ve been posting… I think my prayers are already being answered.

Having church in a ballpark

481217_10150921930508246_1154209905_n“Do good things for the city where I sent you as captives. Pray to the Lord for the city where you are living, because if good things happen in the city, good things will happen to you also” (Jeremiah 29:7 NCV).

We had church at the ballpark last night. I’ve agreed to be the team chaplain for our local baseball team, the Wilson Tobs. The Tobs play in the Coastal Plain League, a NCAA sanctioned collegiate summer baseball league. They have college players from all over the U.S. spending their summer with us in Wilson.

Last night, I had the honor of throwing out the first pitch. Catcher, Heath Holliday (#5 talking to me in the photo above) made me look good, saying, “Good pitch Pastor. That one definitely caught the inside corner!” Heath is from Oklahoma City, OK.

550635_10150921928683246_1834034210_nAround 100 WCCers showed up in the sweltering heat (+90 degrees) to support the team. Our worship band, led by my son Stephen, offered an hour of worship music as people entered the stadium before game time. I preached a short sermon on the Lord’s Prayer from home plate to those gathered in the stands. Our own Talia Jernigan sang the National Anthem. And after the game, Bobby Pittman led a WCC crew that provided a postgame meal of chicken pastry for both teams.

“Have you ever had chicken pastry?” I asked my new friend Heath from Oklahoma.

“No sir. I can’t say that I have.” He answered.

“Oh, you’ll love it.” I said, while patting him on the shoulder.

550567_10150921931088246_1719230268_nSome might wonder why we would take our church to the ballpark on a Wednesday night, but we love taking our church to the city. Sure, it was hard work and terribly hot and we’re not sure if we made an impact or not. But we do know that we did our best to “do good for our city.”

We are praying to the Lord for our city. We want people to come to Christ in Wilson. When we see all of these young baseball players from all over the U.S. coming to our city, we sense an even more strategic call to share the gospel with them. They could carry the good news to their home towns too.

554734_10150921930133246_1249726066_nTomorrow I’m returning to the ball field to hold a short devotion with the team before another home game. I’m praying that these young men will be open to spiritual things and that God will speak through me. I think it might be easier now that they’ve seen us having church in a ballpark.

Sons becoming fathers

Sons“Your sons will take the place of your fathers…” (Psalm 45:16 NIV).

“He must manage his own family well, having children who respect and obey him. For if a man cannot manage his own household, how can he take care of God’s church?” (1 Timothy 3:4-5 NLT).

I sat out on my deck one evening this week talking with my son, Jonathan. He and his wife are expecting their second child any day (minute?) now. We talked about all the changes in his life… graduating seminary, becoming a military chaplain, being hired as a staff pastor at Discovery Church, moving to Greenville, NC… It’s enough to make anyone a little dizzy!

“So, aren’t you excited to finally be able to put your education and training to use?” I asked as we talked about his new role at Discovery.

“I am.” He answered, with a thoughtful look on his face. “But I’ve still got a lot to learn.”

“Sure, we all have to keep learning, Son. After all, great leaders are learners. They keep a teachable attitude, always stretching for…” I began, assuming he was talking about his role at church.

But interrupting me he said, “Yeah Dad. That’s true, but I’m not talking about my new role at Discovery. I’m talking about being a dad. I feel like I’ve got a lot of growing to do as a father and as a husband too. That’s why I’ve asked our senior pastor to mentor me in those two areas.”

“Really?” I responded. “Son, I think that’s awesome.”

It is a real blessing to watch my sons becoming fathers. Both of them are serious about being fathers. They love being “Daddy” to their children. They make it one of their top priorities.

My eldest son, Stephen, has been through a lot lately as a father. The loss of his newborn son, Conner has been a terrible blow to both he and his wife. I’ve watched in awe as they have navigated their grief while honoring Conner’s memory and giving all the glory to the Lord. Only their faith and constant dependence on Jesus has given them this endurance.

The loss of a son is a real test for a father. Everyone knows that fathers aren’t supposed to outlive their sons. But as Stephen said at Conner’s funeral, “I’m not the only one who has lost a son. Our Heavenly Father lost His Son too. He understands our pain, because He gave up His Son for us at Calvary.”

What a joy it is to see my sons become fathers. And to see them depending on our Heavenly Father for power and wisdom to lead their homes.

Their commitment to fathering their kids is the best Father’s Day gift this grandfather could ever have!

The mystery of marriage

“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband” (Ephesians 5:31-33 ESV).

Paul says that there is a “profound mystery” surrounding the “one flesh” concept of a husband and wife in marriage and the way it illustrates the relationship between Christ and His church.

This past Saturday, June 2, Robin and I celebrated our 33rd anniversary. We have held fast to one another and have learned this mystery of which Paul speaks. We know this oneness.

We often finish one another’s sentences. We can sit quietly for hours, me reading, her stitching and then suddenly we both start talking at the same time… about the same thing. Weird? Maybe. Mysterious? Absolutely. I cannot imagine life without her.

Now, don’t misunderstand. We may be one, but we’re not the same. She’s a morning person. I’m a night owl. She’s sweet. I’m spicy. She’s a push over with the kids and grandkids. I’m a disciplinarian. She normally likes to play it safe. I tend to be a risk taker.

In most ways we are complete opposites, yet God has made us one. The Word says that when we commit to faithfully cling to one another, and continue to love and respect one another, that we in some way experience the mystery of this oneness.

For Paul the word “mystery” is not a puzzle for us to solve. It is more like a “secret” that must be revealed. What is this secret that marriage is supposed to reveal? It is that Christ wants us to be one with Him as He is one with the Father, that He wants to be our head while we become His body and that He wants to love us as His bride. That’s the mystery of marriage.

But for me there is one other…  And that’s the mystery of why my normally cautious wife decided to take a leap of faith 33 years ago and marry me!

May God be glorified as Robin and I give Him thanks for this mysterious oneness that we now have with Him and with one another.

Family Feud

Family Feud - Logo-01“Eli’s sons were wicked men; they had no regard for the Lord” (1 Samuel 2:12 NIV).

Eli was the High Priest of Israel. He was also a judge in the days before they had a king. Born into the line of Aaron, by all accounts he was a good priest and judge. Yet, as a father, he was a complete failure. His two sons were raised up to serve in the Tabernacle. They were PKs – “Preacher’s Kids,” but they had “no regard for the Lord.”

How can a parent have such strong faith and be good at their work, yet still be terrible at raising kids?

I’m sure parents ask themselves this same question today. They ask, “Didn’t I keep a roof over your heads and food in your stomachs? Did you ever lack for clothes or shoes? Didn’t I make sure you got a good education? And didn’t I take you to church every Sunday?”

The truth is that a parent can do everything right and their children can still go wrong. Even God the Father has seen His share of rebellious kids.

But there are certain warning signs that our parenting is falling short. These are the signs of a family in crisis that Eli overlooked:

  • Worldy preoccupation
  • Passive avoidance
  • Personal resignation

Success at work does not equal success at home. Come to WCC this Sunday as we launch our new sermon series entitled: “Family Feud” and learn how to respond to these warning signs.

You then, my son

DSC_0089“You then, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus. And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable men who will also be qualified to teach others” (2 Timothy 2:1-2 NIV).

My son, Jonathan David Combs graduated from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary today with a Masters of Divinity degree. I am very proud of him. Southeastern is my alma mater and I was especially pleased that he got to study under a couple of my former professors.

I owe a great deal to Dr. Wayne McDill, Emeritus Professor of Preaching. He taught me the value of “text-based” preaching. I still remember being in his class and hearing him say, “Gentlemen, you’ve got to discover what the text says and then let the text speak for itself!”

I still strive to do that today. I don’t want to add or subtract to the meaning of God’s Word. Rather than bringing my thoughts and opinions to the Word, I want it to shape my thinking and preaching.

DSC_0042When Jonathan started at SEBTS I told him to make sure to take Dr. McDill for preaching. I’m glad he was able to get at least one class with him before he retired.

Today, after graduation, I was so happy to get a chance to talk to Dr. McDill and to let him know how much I appreciated him. When I told him that I was teaching lay preachers how to study and preach using his method, he encouraged me to email him for a new tool he has developed to train young preachers.

DSC_0075I also got a chance to talk to Dr. Daniel Akin, President of Southeastern. However, when I attended seminary, he was still a professor. He is only a year older than me and I used to just call him “Dr. Danny.” I took Christology from him. He was always one of my favorite professors. I still use his study notes (he gave out huge amounts of structured notes).

Our family enjoyed a beautiful day on the campus in Wake Forest, North Carolina as we stood and watched Jonathan graduate. We’re all very proud of him.

Now, you then, my son, be strong, and go and teach others.

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