{"id":9165,"date":"2020-08-16T14:41:00","date_gmt":"2020-08-16T18:41:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.garycombs.org\/blog\/?post_type=message&#038;p=9165"},"modified":"2020-08-21T14:44:39","modified_gmt":"2020-08-21T18:44:39","slug":"a-letter-on-first-love","status":"publish","type":"message","link":"https:\/\/www.garycombs.org\/blog\/message\/a-letter-on-first-love","title":{"rendered":"A Letter on First Love"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Below is an automated transcript of this message:<\/h3>\n\n\n\nGood morning; it is good <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2.55\">to <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> see all of you here in person and it is good to be speaking to those of you that are watching from online today. We welcome all of you here today.  We&#8217;re continuing our series, \u201cLetters from Jesus.\u201d We&#8217;re going through the first 3 chapters of the book of Revelation. We began last week;  this is part two.   We will be picking up in Revelation,  chapter two,  in what we&#8217;re calling,  \u201cA  Letter on First Love.\u201d  This is a love letter from Jesus;  we will be discussing and talking about it today. <br><br>\nNow, speaking of love, we need to pray for love to reign in our city and in our country.  There&#8217;s so much division and so much pain.   We pray that the love of Christ and the peace of Christ would dwell here. <br><br>\nThis past week,  we had a terrible tragedy in our city. A five year old boy named Cannon was murdered while riding his bicycle in his front yard and in front of his two little sisters. <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"65.54\">It\u2019s <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> a tragic story. I was phoned by the pastor of a church that they had attended that Sunday morning. They attended church that Sunday morning, and then that afternoon, this little boy was murdered. The pastors of that church went to the emergency room and were there present after all this happened. One of our own members was an eyewitness to the tragedy.  Maybe some of you are traumatized,  as well, by this terrible act.  It could cause us to be angry. It could cause us to want revenge. All of these emotions might be yours today. I want to pray for the Hinnant family. I want to pray for that church that&#8217;s ministering to them  and those pastors who are  traumatized in many ways.  Can you pray with <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"141.43\">me <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>? <br><br>\nLord, may Your love reign.   May this church and other churches in this city who love Jesus be lamp stands that are the light of the love and peace of Christ to the city. May love reign here,  we pray,  for the Hinnant family. We pray for their church. We pray for their neighborhood and their neighbors. We pray, Lord, for all these and for ourselves even now, Lord, that we would respond as You would have us respond. Lord, we love You. We express it to You now, in Jesus\u2019 name. Amen. <br><br>\nI felt we couldn&#8217;t begin without addressing this,  because the word of God addresses where we are today;  it always does. Today,  we&#8217;re talking about this love letter. It&#8217;s the letter to the church. Its emphasis  is a letter from Jesus about love. <br><br>\nHave you ever received a love letter? Maybe you&#8217;ve written one. I&#8217;ve written several. I remember one I wrote, I think,  in the fifth grade to a <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"210.37\">pretty<i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> little girl named Ellen. I made one of my first mistakes; I&#8217;ve made many when it comes to love. Maybe you&#8217;ve made some too. One of my first mistakes was I gave her three choices on this little letter. I said, I like you. Do you like me? Please check one. I gave her three boxes:  (1) Yes  (2) No  and (3) Maybe.   have declared that you didn&#8217;t say \u201clove\u201d  in the fifth grade. You said \u201clike,\u201d  but you meant \u201clove.\u201d  Which box do you think she checked? She checked (3) Maybe.  I was right back to where I started. That letter was a waste of time. Never give them  the \u201cmaybe\u201d  box; with \u201cyes\u201d or \u201cno,\u201d at least you know where you stand afterwards. <br><br>\nJesus wrote a letter through his scribe,  John. He said, John, write this letter for me, a love letter. Do you love me? Yes or no? Some people will  check (3)  Maybe.   There&#8217;s <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"277.07\">very <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> few people in the room this morning that would say \u201cno.\u201d  You probably wouldn&#8217;t be here if you didn&#8217;t have some desire, some affection, some interest in the person of Jesus Christ. You wouldn&#8217;t be here.  But,  many are sitting here this morning and you&#8217;ve checked the (3) Maybe box. <br><br>\nJesus didn&#8217;t give you that choice. He didn&#8217;t ask the \u201cmaybe;\u201d  He didn&#8217;t make that mistake. And he wants to know why you don&#8217;t love Him like you used to. Why don&#8217;t you love Him with priority?   Why don&#8217;t you love Him first? Well, that&#8217;s what this letter is about. Don&#8217;t we all need to hear this today?  <br><br>\nSome of you are here today and I want you to hear this. Jesus loves you just where you are without changing anything.  I feel like singing an old  Billy Joel song to you right now,  Don&#8217;t go changin\u2019  to try to please me,  I love you just the way you are.   Jesus loves you just the way you are.   But when you love Him back,  you&#8217;ll change.   Billy Joel  got that part wrong;  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"350.23\">He <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> wants you to love Him back.   <br><br>\nAre you listening today? And you feel unloved and lonely?  Jesus loves you. Are you distracted by other things and your affections are all over the place? Jesus loves you. Are you feeling dry today and you would admit you don\u2019t  burn with the passion you once did?   I remember when I first came to Christ, I was on fire. You&#8217;re saying that  the fire is kind of a little candlelight right now. This letter is to you.   Jesus loves you and  wants you to know He has this astounding question:  Why in the world, would  the God of the universe, Who has no needs and is  all sufficient,  care whether you love Him? But He does. He wants to know,  Do you love Me? <br><br>\nWhat kind of God is this? This Jesus who says,  I love you this much and He dies on a cross for you.   He wants to know, Do you love Me? T what this letter is about.   In this chapter, Jesus <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"426.13\">told <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> John to write a letter to the church of Ephesus,  calling them to always put their love for Him first. <br><br>\nI believe we can put our love for Jesus first. As we look at the Scripture today, I think we&#8217;ll see three ways to encourage us to put our love for Jesus first. Are you ready? Let&#8217;s read. It&#8217;s only seven verses today. Let&#8217;s dig in. <br><br>\nRevelation 2:1-7 (ESV) 1 \u201cTo the angel of the church in Ephesus write: \u2018The words of him who holds the seven stars in his right hand, who walks among the seven golden lampstands. 2 \u2018\u201cI know your works, your toil and your patient endurance, and how you cannot bear with those who are evil, but have tested those who call themselves apostles and are not, and found them to be false. 3 I know you are enduring patiently and bearing up for my name&#8217;s sake, and you have not grown weary. 4 But I have this against you, that you have abandoned the love you had at first. 5 Remember therefore from where you have fallen;<span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"495.81\">repent, <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> and do the works you did at first. If not, I will come to you and remove your lampstand from its place, unless you repent. 6 Yet this you have: you hate the works of the Nicolaitans, which I also hate. 7 He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To the one who conquers I will grant to eat of the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.\u2019  This is God\u2019s Word. Amen.<br><br>\nThis is the love letter that Jesus writes about first love, priority, love to the church and emphasis. I would have you take a look at verse  five, because from verse five we will get the three encouraging ways that Jesus corrects and gives them a prescription for how to turn their church around. <br><br>\nIn verse five, there are three Greek imperatives. In other words, there are command words.   The first one is (1) Remember, the second one  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"561.6\">is <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> (2) Repent and the third one is (3) Do  Do you see them there? Remember, repent and do.  <br><br>\nHow to put our love for Christ first:<br><br>\n1. Remember.<br><br>\nWe&#8217;re going  to cover \u201cremember\u201d  first. That&#8217;s your first \u201cfill in the blank.\u201d   Remember.   You may  wonder where I get my points. Well, this week it&#8217;s pretty easy. Do you see where I got them? Jesus said, \u201cremember.\u201d  Remember what? Remember the height from which you&#8217;ve fallen.   How you used to love Me, how you put Me first.  Remember;  you forgot Me. <br><br>\nThe Greek word for remember is (            ).   It&#8217;s where we get the word mnemonic.   Some of you have never heard of  that word before.   I think the first time I heard it was from a music teacher who was trying to teach me the lines and spaces of the Treble Clef and she gave me a mnemonic for the lines. Every Good Boy Does Fine, which lets you know the notes. Then,  I asked my music teacher, What about the spaces? And she gave me another mnemonic device.  F A C E  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"631.47\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> That&#8217;s the spaces. There you go; I&#8217;ve given you Every Good Boy Does Fine and FACE.  Now you are ready to play music; at least you know the names of the notes on the Treble Clef.   That&#8217;s called a mnemonic  device; our brains, the way they work when we want to remember something, we attach it to something we already know. <br><br>\nRemember back in the day when you knew people&#8217;s phone numbers?   We used to be smarter than our  telephones in those days. Now, telephones are smarter than us; that&#8217;s why we call them smartphones. I&#8217;m not sure if  I know my wife&#8217;s phone number for her mobile.   I think I know it, but I wouldn&#8217;t  even try right now. What I would do is, I would pull out my smartphone and say, Here it is; I\u2019ll  send it to you. But back in the day, I memorized so many numbers. Strange as  it may seem,  I still remember my mother&#8217;s home telephone number    back <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"689.49\">when <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> they used to have this thing called landlines. The phone hung on the wall; it was black. If you were to  hit somebody with the receiver, it would knock you out.  It was a  rotary dial;  old people, are you here?  Someone down front just said they  saw one in a  museum.  You had to be a real man to ask a girl on a date in those days just waiting for the next number.  <br><br>\nLet\u2019s get back to the word,  mnemonic.  Jesus said to  \u201cremember.\u201d    <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"748.44\">To<i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> exercise your memory,  to actively engage your memory. Remember to love Him,  not just passively but actively, He says as He begins this letter. <br><br>\nThere are  seven letters; the letter to the church of Ephesus is the first one of  all of them. They follow a certain letter template. There are six parts of the template. I have come up with six P words that I almost was prepared to preach to you today. Aren&#8217;t you glad that I went with three instead of six ? But this template follows all seven letters. Some of the churches don&#8217;t get all six; Person, Place, Praise, Problem, Prescription, and Promise. It starts off by saying it&#8217;s from this person to this person, to this messenger to a certain place. And then it gives some praise, a commendation; I know you do some good things, you do some good works.  Then,  it gives you a problem. You\u2019ve  got a problem.  You&#8217;ve abandoned your first <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"824.74\">love.  <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> Then it gives you a prescription, which is what I&#8217;m preaching. I&#8217;m preaching the prescription; remember, repent and return, which will be  your three points. Then,  it closes with a promise. All seven letters contain this template,  although a few of them don&#8217;t have all of them. Smyrna has no correction, no prescription, and Leodicia has  no praise. But they all have at least some of these six attributes to the angel. <br><br>\nWho&#8217;s the angel? Well, Jesus did not reveal himself from heaven to John on the Isle of Patmos and then tell him to write a letter back to heaven. The word angel means messenger. Who&#8217;s the person who would be the messenger to the church of Ephesus? Well, who&#8217;s your messenger? Who&#8217;s the guy who,  every Sunday,  stands in front of you and gives you a message from God&#8217;s word? He\u2019s  the pastor; this is the pastor to the church of Ephesus.  Jesus says to write this letter so he can read it <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"893.44\">and <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> preach it to his church. That&#8217;s what&#8217;s going on here to the pastor of the church at Ephesus, to the messenger,  to the angel. And then, instead of saying it&#8217;s from Jesus, he says, \u201c \u2018The words of him who holds the seven stars in his right hand, who walks among the seven golden lampstands.\u201d What he&#8217;s done here is he&#8217;s picked up two attributes from Revelation, chapter one. If you were here last week, you heard these two character traits of Jesus when John saw him. John doesn&#8217;t give emphasis to all of them; he just says \u201c \u2018The words of him who holds the seven stars in his right hand, who walks among the seven golden lampstands.\u201d  That&#8217;s the part He wants him to reveal, because He has a different part of him that He wants to reveal to you and to us that&#8217;s appropriate to you on this day. More on that in a little bit. <br><br>\nAnd then,  He digs in to <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"954.56\">the <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> church of Ephesus.   Why Ephesus?  Why start there? <br><br>\nWell, let&#8217;s look at a map quickly. You know I love maps. Here&#8217;s the Isle of Patmos;  this is  where John is  writing  from. He&#8217;s exiled on the Isle of Patmos. He&#8217;s not that far, like 50 miles, but he will  need a boat. Here&#8217;s Ephesus;  it&#8217;s the greatest seaport in Asia Minor. It&#8217;s the third largest city in the Roman Empire, nested there between two mountain ranges, and it has a huge port.   Right here, you can see the island of Samos in the distance. And so,  over here is John. He&#8217;s writing to Ephesus;  it&#8217;s the closest city to him. It&#8217;s also the most prominent city.   You can see that he  takes them in the order that Jesus takes them;  in the order that they lay in a circular pattern, which means Jesus knows geography. <br><br>\nMy granddaughter, who is  sitting <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1014.65\">on <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the front row, knows that states along the eastern seaboard of the United States. You can ask her later as you&#8217;re leaving;  she can name them for you. Her father&#8217;s been doing flash cards with her, so she&#8217;s learning geography. Jesus knows geography. He made the place. He made the world. He knows where Wilson is. He knows the cities. He had the letters written in the order that they would appropriately be written. <br><br>\nWhy Ephesus? It&#8217;s because of its prominence; it&#8217;s the largest city, as I said. It was the fourth largest city in the Roman Empire, with  250,000 in population. It was called the \u201cSupreme Metropolis of Asia\u201d  by the Romans.  It was beautiful, and it had all of  these ships coming ashore and bringing  goods into the marketplace.  It was a very wealthy city. I&#8217;ve been there at  the ruins  of Ephesus. It&#8217;s all ruins now because the river that was bringing  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1082.52\">all <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the silt down from the mountains finally moved the coast out so the harbor is  no longer of any use. Eventually,  over the centuries, the city became ruins. People moved to other places. <br><br>\nIf you&#8217;ve ever read  the book of Acts, here is the stadium  where the apostle Paul had been preaching for three years in the city of Ephesus.   He had planted a church there to the point where the people stopped buying the little idols of Artemus, the mythological goddess of fertility. The Romans also referred to her, or the Greeks rather,  referred to her as Diana. The Romans called her Artemus and they would make these little silver idols of her and the sailors would come ashore and buy them.   It was a huge way they made money.   The Temple of Artemus was considered the seventh wonder of the world. One of the seven wonders of the world is amazing. <br><br>\nSo,  here&#8217;s the stadium. I&#8217;m standing right here taking this photograph. This is the place where the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1146.68\">riots <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> took place and they all flooded into the stadium because they were shouting, Great is Artemus of the Ephesians.   All of the silversmiths started a riot. Have you ever heard of a riot happening anywhere in the nation? They  started a riot; they wanted to kill the Christians because the Christians were ruining their business. Paul wanted to go in there and the disciples said,  No. You&#8217;re not going in there. They&#8217;ll kill you. They kept him out. <br><br>\nThe stadium  is still there, built  on the side of a mountain. What you&#8217;re missing now  is the temple of Artemus that used to sit right there at the top of the hill that you could see as you pulled in the port from the ocean. It&#8217;s gone;  an earthquake destroyed it. Here&#8217;s a picture of Robin and I visiting Ephesus.  I just want to prove I was really there.  <br><br>\nGo to the next slide; this  is The Library of Celsus., which was the third largest library in the Roman world. It was destroyed by the Goths.   <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1214.65\">The <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> Goths  burned it to the ground and we lost all of the  ancient history that was there. <br><br>\nGo to the next slide; this is amazing to me. They even had public restrooms with plumbing, with running water underneath them. I don&#8217;t know what that ditch was for right there. But anyway, you can\u2019t use them anymore. <br><br>\nEphesus  is the most prominent city in all of Asia Minor, which is in modern day Turkey today. Jesus decides the part He wants to reveal to them is the part they need to hear the most.  By the way, they got to be the biggest church because they&#8217;re in the biggest city. They got to be the most prominent church. This church is probably about fifty years old; because Paul probably planted the church.  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1275.58\"> <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>  <br><br>\nJesus says, I need to remind you of something. I hold your pastor in my right hand and I walk among your church, and whether it continues to exist or not is not up to you. I&#8217;m the pastor of your church.   I&#8217;m over your pastor. That church is mine. You can&#8217;t just keep running on what you know,  on your doctrine,  on your duty,  on what you hate.   I can see your heart. And you might think you&#8217;re prominent and you&#8217;ll never die.  You may think that you\u2019ve  got it together and those other little churches are just barely getting started but  I&#8217;m the One who holds you in my hand  here. I think,  perhaps,  this is me just kind of trying to unpack this; I wanted you to get how prominent, how powerful, that church was and how together they were. As Jesus says, 2 \u2018\u201cI know your works, your toil and your patient endurance, and how you cannot bear with those who are evil\u2026\u201d    But He wants them to remember this; this is the part of the Revelation He wants them to get.   <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1345.47\"> <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> <br><br>\nThe reason I would spend that much time talking to you about the church of Ephesus  is because these letters are written to a real church in a real city.   Awareness of the geography and the place is in Foxe&#8217;s Book of Martyrs.  Extra-biblical sources inform that the apostle John returned to Ephesus after his exile, where he ministered until his death. He was buried there and later a church was built over his tomb, called The Church of St. John. They always built churches in those days, on top of such things, a church used to stand there and you can see the inscription there. He was able to return to the city of Ephesus  after having been in exile. This is a real place. Jesus knew it well <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1420.05\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> John was very well aware of it, too.  He probably was considered the Bishop of Asia Minor. He would have been the last living disciple, the  last of the 12,  at the most prominent church.  When he got back from breaking those  rocks on the Isle of Patmos and brought those letters, I guarantee you they got a sermon from old John. <br><br>\nJesus, in verses two and three,  says He knows something about the people of Ephesus.  Verse two  starts off with,  \u201cI know.\u201d   Verse three  starts off with, \u201cI know.\u201d   He knows the church of Ephesus.   He knows what they do. He knows the church at Wilson. He knows the church of Eastern North Carolina.   He knows you. <br><br>\nYou might think you have some secrets,  and you probably do,  from your spouse,  from your neighbors, from your co-workers and people you go to school with. You\u2019ve got some secrets from the people sitting around you at church. But there&#8217;s one who walks <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1493.27\">among <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the golden lamp stands, and He knows.  <br><br>\nHe knows when you do the right thing;  He  commends you.    Remember,  I told you how these letters work? This is the part where He  gives praise; He gives commendation.  He lists seven commendations, seven words of praise;   \u201cWorks\u201d (2), \u201cToil\u201d (2), \u201cPatient endurance\u201d (2), \u201cCannot bear with evil\u201d (2), \u201cEnduring patiently\u201d(3), \u201cBearing up for my name\u2019s sake\u201d (3), \u201cNot grown weary\u201d (3).  Seven words of praise; I know these things about you.  I know you&#8217;ve got good doctrine and good works. You got great programs. You\u2019ve got it together. You do everything with excellence, but there&#8217;s something else and I have this against you. A strong word;  \u201cI have this against you.\u201d   I know something about you that no one else knows. And maybe you haven&#8217;t looked in the mirror in a while. And you don&#8217;t notice it either. <br><br>\nYou&#8217;ve been saying,  I feel a<span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1562.09\">little <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> dry. I just don\u2019t know;  this Covid thing has gotten  me out of the habit of attending church. I&#8217;m having a hard time watching it online. The whole world seems to be flying apart. You\u2019ve  got your eye on a thousand  things right now and you don&#8217;t know which one to look at. You are kind of numb.   Jesus says, Look, do you love me? Have you forsaken your first love? I know everything about you. And one thing I know is you are doing some good things but you&#8217;re not doing them with the right motives. Motives matter. They matter to Jesus. He says you&#8217;ve abandoned your first love.  I know some things about you and a lot of good, but the most important thing of all you&#8217;ve abandoned, you\u2019ve  forsaken, you\u2019ve left behind your first love.   You don&#8217;t love me. You don&#8217;t love me like I love you. \n \nWhy does He care about this? He <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1643.19\">does <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>, though he does cares that you love Him, church. The love you had at first, some translations say you&#8217;ve left your first love. The Greek word is protos love, sacrificial love. God&#8217;s kind of love.  Love above all others kind of love. You don&#8217;t love me first, with priority,  like you used to or maybe some of you never have. <br><br>\nIn John, Chapter 21,  Peter denied Jesus three times,  on the shore of the Sea of Galilee.   Jesus has prepared breakfast for them after they had fished all night and caught  nothing.   Jesus yells to them,  telling them to throw their nets on the other side, which is a familiar thing.     He&#8217;d done that at the beginning of his ministry  and they caught this great catch of fish. Peter jumps overboard because he&#8217;s Peter.  He swims ashore, comes ashore dripping wet, like an old golden retriever who was retrieving <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1723.57\">something <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. Jesus told him he can bring some of his fish in. So then,  Peter has to run back to the boat and bring the fish to  Jesus, who is cooking breakfast on the beach. They gather around there, eating breakfast together with Jesus. <br><br>\nThis is the risen Lord Jesus. He&#8217;s already been crucified, He has been  in the tomb for three days, and He&#8217;s alive forevermore.  But Peter has gone fishing; he&#8217;s returned to his nets. He&#8217;s going back to his old life as if Jesus had never come and interrupted his life. He denied Him three times, and he doesn&#8217;t think he can be passionate like he once was. He&#8217;s blown it. Peter hears this voice from Jesus. <br><br>\nWhen they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon, \u201cPeter Simon, son of John, Do you love me more than these?\u201d   Many pastors have preached many  sermons trying to identify \u201cthese;\u201d  some try to visualize Jesus  taking His hand and pointing to the fish,  saying, you&#8217;ve gone back to your fishing,  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1795.81\">to <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the fish.  Do you love me more than these fish or these nets,  your former  occupation or your  former life,   when you put me ahead of your old life?    Maybe that&#8217;s what Jesus meant.  Or, maybe,  He was referring to the other disciples who are all seated around. Do you love me more than you love them?   Do you love me more than they love me? The truth is,   we don&#8217;t know what He meant here.   I think the Bible left it open so you could fill in the blank. Do you love more than whatever it is that you love more than Jesus? <br><br>\nHoly spirit, right now,  speak. Speak to every person in this room. There&#8217;s an idol in your life. There is a place that has a strong hold in your heart.   The reason you&#8217;re dry, the reason that you&#8217;re not aflame for Christ is that  as you love <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1857.77\">something <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> or someone more and  with more priority then  Jesus.   \u201cDo you love me more than these?\u201d   Wow! Jesus cares about that. <br><br>\nWhat&#8217;s the first of \u201cGod&#8217;s top 10?\u201d   What&#8217;s the first commandment of the Ten Commandments?   Exodus 20:3, \u201cYou shall have no other gods before me.\u201d   God says I want you to love Me with all your heart, all your soul , all your mind and all your strength.   Love your neighbor as yourself. But I want you to love Me first. <br><br>\nWhen my daughter,  Erin,  was a little girl, we played the \u201cwho loves more\u201d game. Have you ever played the \u201cwho loves more\u201d game? It happened at bedtime; we developed it over the years.  We taught all of our kids; you must tell us that you love us. You have to teach kids to say \u201cI love you;\u201d  it doesn&#8217;t come natural. Jesus has to teach us how to love Him, doesn&#8217;t He? He has to teach us <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1923.28\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> He&#8217;s teaching Peter how to love Him  right here. So,  we teach your kids and they learn it really well. And then,  they become teenagers; we have to start all over again. Little Erin, at bedtime, had been taught to say,  I love you, Daddy. I love you, Mommy. She couldn\u2019t  just go to bed; she  had  to say this before going  to bed. In fact, we still have these rules. All of the family members can&#8217;t leave the house without a hug and an  \u201cI love you.\u201d   Before you go to  work,  anytime you&#8217;re apart from one another, you need to say,  \u201cI love you.\u201d   Husbands and wives, please learn this lesson. If you don&#8217;t know it, hear it now.  You don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;ll see them again. You never know what today holds.   So, Erin would say, \u201cI love you, Daddy,\u201d  and she would head towards the stairs.  I would say,  \u201cI love you more,\u201d  as she was  taking the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1969.07\">first <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> steps up the stairs to her bedroom.  She would say, \u201cI love you,more\u201d picking up the  pace, as she was  trying to get the last word in. And I would say, \u201cthe mostest,\u201d and she&#8217;d say \u201cthe mostest, mostest.\u201d    I would say, \u201cinfinity;\u201d  her  door would slam and then the door would open again.  She would shout out, \u201ctimes a million, million,\u201d and quickly shut her door.  This  could go on,  depending on how quickly she got in the bedroom. That&#8217;s the \u201cwho loves more\u201d game. <br><br>\nJesus is not playing a game. He says,  \u201cI love you this much.\u201d  Romans 5:8 (NIV) 8 \u201cBut God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.\u201d\nI love you this much. I proved My love; would you love Me back?<br><br>\nRemember.   Are you here,  seeking Jesus today? You&#8217;re seeking something. He loves you so much that He died to rescue you.   He is asking  you to love Him back. Believer, are you <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2024.86\">here <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> today, in your sin? I have lost the passion; I have lost  the fire. \u201cFan it into flame,\u201d  he says.   Remember now,  the words,  actively work on it in your memory.   Say,  I need to get back on track with Jesus. I need to do the first things again. Will you do it? <br><br>\nHow to put our love for Christ first:<br><br>\n(2)  Repent.  <br><br>\nHere&#8217;s the second word, repent.   I could preach the  first word all day, so I need  to move on. Remember, in verse 5, he says, \u201cRemember, therefore,  from where you have fallen and repent.\u201d  He says the word, repent,  twice.  \u201cRepent and do the work.\u201d  If not, He will come to you and move your lampstand from its place.  Repent is the second command word He gives in His prescription to the church at Ephesus.   The word means, literally,  \u201cto change one&#8217;s mind, have a change of mind or a change of heart.\u201d   In the New Living Translation, it is helpful in that it translates the first use of the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2089.79\">word,  <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> repent.  \u201cLook how far you&#8217;ve fallen. Turn back to me and do the work.\u201d  Turn back. <br><br>\nThink of it like this:   you&#8217;re going the wrong way and then,  you remember,  like the prodigal son in Luke15,  who&#8217;s down in the pigpen. He has spent his father&#8217;s inheritance. He&#8217;s rejected his father and he&#8217;s gone the wrong way. He&#8217;s had a big party and he&#8217;s lost everything. Here is this Jewish boy feeding the pigs, and he&#8217;s so hungry that he starts looking at the pig food and  thinks it looks good to eat. It is at this point that he remembers. He remembers his father;  how much his father loves him.  He says to himself, my father\u2019s  servants eat  better than this. He repents in his heart; he begins to plan how he&#8217;s   going to  turn back to his father and repent. <br><br>\nIt begins with remembering.  The Father loves me. He <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2152.82\">sent <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> His son,  Jesus,  to die for me. Why am I on this road? I&#8217;m on the wrong road. It&#8217;s not enough just to remember,  you  must turn back.  <br><br>\nIf you were in the military, you  probably heard your sergeant say,  About face.   It  meant to turn 180 degrees and march  the opposite direction from where you were marching before.   Repent means to turn around and go the right way. It means  something of the attitude of your heart, that there&#8217;s contrition,  that you&#8217;re sorry for where you are and you  don\u2019t want to be there anymore. You  want to be on fire and you  want to love Jesus with priority in your  life. You  want every mark in your  life to radiate out of the reality that you love Him with all you heart, your  soul, your  mind and your strength. <br><br>\nDo you love Jesus first? Will you repent,  if you are in the situation where you are  still going through the motions, but you are pretty dry. Don&#8217;t just <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2213.69\">confess <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> it. Repent. Change your mind. Change your heart. Turn around  and run back to the Father. He&#8217;s waiting with open arms. <br><br>\nHow to put our love for Christ first:<br><br>\n(3)  Return. <br><br>\nHere&#8217;s the third way we can follow this prescription to put Jesus first in our life; it\u2019s to return. We&#8217;ve said, remember and repent;  now, in verse five it says to do the works you did at first. In other words, return  to your first works,  to your priority works. He uses the word \u201cfirst\u201d  twice. He talks about first love. Then he talks about first works. Why are these connected? Because God cares about the motives of what you do. \u201cGo back to doing the works motivated by love.\u201d  Do these kinds of first works,  these kinds of things;  when you couldn&#8217;t wait to read His Word because every word meant something to you.  You  couldn&#8217;t wait to be with his people because you loved being with them.   Back when you loved Him ahead of everything else. Get back to that. Return to the Father.   Go back <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2281.89\">to <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the Father&#8217;s house, go back to His heart.   Turn your heart back; return. Get back to your first works, your  first love.   <br><br>\nAnd then,  He&#8217;s got that warning in the prescription.   He says, if you don&#8217;t return, if you don&#8217;t repent  and return,  I will remove your lampstand. What does the lampstand do?   It provides light; it&#8217;s a symbol.  Also,  the function of the lampstand provides insight. <br><br>\nThe seven lamp stands, as we learned in chapter one,  represent  the seven churches to which He&#8217;s writing these letters. He says to the church of  Ephesus that they are represented by a lampstand. If they don&#8217;t remember, repent and return, He is going to remove their lampstand from its place. He didn&#8217;t say He is going to  remove the lamp stand because He will have a light in this world,  calling people to himself, and he&#8217;ll call some other church. But he might remove it from Ephesus;  from their  place. What is he removing <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2348.74\">from<i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the people? They&#8217;re not losing their salvation. That doesn&#8217;t seem to be what&#8217;s in view. It&#8217;s not about salvation. What does the lamp do? It sheds light. Light allows you to see,  it allows you to know what&#8217;s around you. It projects influence, and so Ephesus is there to shine a light on Jesus.  <br><br>\nIf you could go to the ancient temple and if you could see the lampstands standing in the Holy Place, there were three pieces of furniture in there. There was the lampstand that was to be kept. Those seven lamps were continuously lit. Over here was a table called the Table of the Showbread, which had twelve loaves of bread, representing the twelve  tribes. And then,  there was an altar of incense.  That was the three pieces of furniture in the Holy Place. Beyond the curtain of the Holy of Holies was the Ark of the Covenant, but within this was three pieces of furniture in the Holy Place.   The lamp lit this area and it shined it\u2019s .light on the bread <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2408.65\">.   <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> Jesus says, \u201cI am the bread of life.\u201d  <br><br>\nIn Zechariah, chapter four, it  says the lampstand represented the Holy Spirit. Also,  today it represents the church, because we&#8217;re the ones indwelt with the Holy Spirit. Listen, church, we   must shine our light on Jesus.  If we get on social media orI get up here and preach and I preach politics or I preach my opinion about whatever is going on in the world, then I&#8217;m not using my light, my influence to promote my love of Jesus. When you shine your light for Jesus, you&#8217;re the church.   We be the church. That&#8217;s not good grammar, but it&#8217;s so.  We are the church, and when you&#8217;re on the internet or social media, you&#8217;re wasting your influence, you are wasting your  light, you are  wasting it on how you feel bad about something or your  opinion.  . Come on, shine your light on Jesus. That&#8217;s the purpose of the church. That&#8217;s why we&#8217;re here; to  love Jesus, and <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2477.85\">to <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> share our light  to the world because we live in a dark world.  The purpose of the church is to be a light on a hill. \nJesus is going to  remove your lampstand if you don&#8217;t get back on track and loving me with priority. <br><br>\nAnd then,  He throws in an extra commendation, which kind of messes up my template that I had shared with you. I don&#8217;t think He does this in the other churches, but  here, to the church at Ephesus,  He was talking about love.   He thought of something that was along with love. It&#8217;s extreme hate;  the church of Ephesus was not very good at love, but they were really good at hate. This  could easily be the American church now.   This church was really good at going and telling other people what they  hated.    He commends them  for it. He tells them they are  good at hate; \u201cyou may not love Me as you should, but at least you hate the \u201cworks of the Nicolaitans, which I also hate.\u201d <br><br>\nGod hates sin <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2543.97\">, <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> and we&#8217;re good at telling people about that. He&#8217;s not saying we shouldn&#8217;t be. He&#8217;s just saying it&#8217;s out of balance. He doesn&#8217;t say,  you hate the Nicolaitans.   He says, you hate their works. You hate the works of the Nicolaitans.  He didn&#8217;t say hate  the sinner; he said to hate the sin. He loves the sinner. He died for the sinner.  <br><br>\nCould we be the church at Ephesus?  We are  really good at doctrine, really excellent at ministry, really good at letting the world know what we&#8217;re against and what we hate.  We are not very good at being motivated by the love of Jesus and sharing the love of Jesus with other people. <br><br>\nWho in the world were the Nicolaitans?  Apparently,  the people in Pergamum were  having trouble with them.  No one knows for sure. Every commentary you read gives a different opinion. Here&#8217;s what Dr. Warren Wiersbe says about it,   \u201cThe name \u201cNicolaus\u201d means \u201cconquer the people\u201d and suggests a separation of clergy and laity in the churches. This sin began as \u201cworks\u201d in Ephesus but became a doctrine in Pergamum.\u201d  I <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2606.58\">think <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> it has some merit. He says it means overcomes, prevails, gains victory. \u201cNike\u201d name origin. How does \u201cone\u201d conquer? (Note \u201covercomes\u201d and \u201cvictory,\u201d they are Greek nika\u014d. nickel late in Nikko comes from the Greek word Nick Ao, which means overcome or conqueror Victor. Some of you are wearing tennis shoes with a Greek word on it;  it says  Nike on the side.   It means victory,  overcomer.  The NIcolaitans  were conquerors of the people, and so,  maybe Weirsbe says it was when the separation between clergy and laity started happening. <br><br>\nWe don&#8217;t want to do church that way. I&#8217;m one of you and I&#8217;m not your minister. I&#8217;m a minister of Chris and so are you.  We are  all ministers. I&#8217;m your pastor. I&#8217;m the messenger but I&#8217;m not your minister. I am a minister under Jesus.  You all are ministers. We don&#8217;t want separation like that. We want all of us to be active in ministry. <br><br>\nBut it began to happen. <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2667.23\">There <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> is something with what the Nicolaitans were doing. They were interested in conquering the people. <br><br>\nHe says in verse seven, \u201cHe who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To the one who conquers I will grant to eat of the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.\u201d   Apparently in the first century, a lot of people were missing ears?  Jesus used that a lot in the Gospels; in Matthew 11:15, we see it quoted,  \u201che who has ears to hear. Let him hear.\u201d  Jesus was always doing that. John had to be writing this down, sort of smiling to himself. Jesus, I forgot how you used to <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2718.27\">say <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> that   all of the time back there. That&#8217;s the same Jesus.  I don&#8217;t think people were missing. ears; Jesus is talking about spiritual ears.   <br><br>\nAre you able to hear spiritually? Are you open to hearing the word of God  so that it comes inside you and resides in you.  The church&#8217;s emphasis was in view and prominent, but it was always meant for all of us, all of us that are part of the church. It&#8217;s to us,  to the one who conquers to the one who overcomes. <br><br>\nWhat does that mean? John gives us the key.  1 John 5:4-5 (ESV) 4 \u201cFor everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world\u2014our faith. 5 Who is it that overcomes the world except the one who believes that Jesus is the Son of God?\u201d  Overcomes; there&#8217;s that word, nika\u014d; conquers the world.  This is <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2774.78\">the <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> victory. <br><br>\nHow do you overcome so that you receive the tree of life, which is eternal life, by faith in the one who is victorious over sin, death and  the grave? His name is Jesus. That&#8217;s how you overcome. It&#8217;s not about trying to overcome with power and prominence and pressing  other people down. No, it&#8217;s by believing and loving Jesus. That&#8217;s how you overcome and receive the Tree of life, which is a symbol of eternal life. <br><br>\nHere&#8217;s the last book of the bible referring  to the first book of the bible.  Jesus reminds John that when he first created man  in the Garden of Eden there was a tree of life. He said to the man and woman that there&#8217;s one tree you can&#8217;t eat. It\u2019s  the tree of the knowledge of good and evil; I don&#8217;t want you to <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2840.09\">sin <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> and introduce sin into my good world. They were allowed, apparently,  to continually eat of the tree of life because they had eternal life. But he said after they sinned and ate of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, He said to Himself, we need to  remove them from paradise and the garden so that they can&#8217;t eat of the tree of life because then sin would continue without end. <br><br>\nWell, here&#8217;s the last book of the bible pointing back to the first book of the bible like two bookends.  He says, &#8220;You want paradise. Remember what  I told the criminal on the cross when he asked Me to remember  him when I came into My kingdom?   I turned to him and said, \u201cI tell you the truth. This very day you&#8217;ll be with me in paradise.\u201d  Since this is Genesis language, well, we&#8217;re on the other end of the Bible now, and he&#8217;s saying there&#8217;s something even better than the Garden of Eden coming your way. If you believe <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2904.41\">in <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> Jesus, you&#8217;ll have eternal life in a place especially prepared for you, where there are no tears and there&#8217;s no pain and there&#8217;s no suffering and no sin. He&#8217;s pointing to that.   I think it would have been something;  this tree of life. <br><br>\nWhy&#8217;d he pick that promise of all things? I think the people in Ephesus  would have recognized the symbol. Remember they were worshipers of Artemus and had her temple at the top of the hill. An archaeologist tells us that there was a garden there at the temple of Artemus and within it was that which they claimed to be a tree of life which supposedly had healing powers.   Ephesus was so prominent; it had a central bank where they minted their own coinage. And we have discovered those coins. They look like this on one side;  it has the honey bee symbol.  You can see the honeybee, the tree of life. It&#8217;s like a palm tree with  the stag. <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2971.53\">All <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> of these were symbols of Artemus, the goddess of fertility. And so they would have been very familiar with this language.  It was just like Jesus to speak in the language they  could understand. <br><br>\nDo you want to respond to this today, Christian? Would you let your work be motivated by love?  2 Corinthians 5:14-15 (NKJV) 14 \u201cFor the love of Christ compels us, because we judge thus: that if One died for all, then all died; 15 and He died for all, that those who live should live no longer for themselves, but for Him who died for them and rose again.\u201d  Will you return and allow your life to be compelled, motivated by your love of Jesus so that you live for Him wholeheartedly? <br><br>\nLet&#8217;s pray.   Lord. I pray,  first of all,  for the person that&#8217;s here today that has never declared their faith in you. Is that you, my friend? You&#8217;re here today and you hear what Christ has done for you and how He loves you and how He wants you to <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"3042.44\">love <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> Him back. Would you declare your love for Him right now? You can pray with me, Dear Lord Jesus, I&#8217;m a sinner.   I&#8217;ve been living on my own. But,  today,  I recognize that You died on the cross for my sins and that You were raised from the grave and that You live today. I believe that Lord and I want You to come into my life. I&#8217;m asking you; please come into my life and become my Savior. Lord,  forgive me of my sins.   Make me what you want me to be.  I want to be a child of God as I declare my love for you.   As you&#8217;re praying right now,  the Lord Jesus is walking among the lampstands.   He always knows what&#8217;s going on with you and  He hears your heart.   And if you&#8217;re praying, in faith   believing,  He will save you and make you His own.   He loves you.   Others are here today, and you are a follower of Jesus, but your heart has gone cold.  You&#8217;ve gone dry.   Would you repent? <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"3104.56\">Would <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> you return and say,  Lord, forgive me.  I want to put you first. Please forgive me, Lord, You are  always faithful.   Will You help me to always be faithful in my priority to  love You.    In Jesus name, Amen.\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jesus wrote a letter to His churches. The first letter went to the church of Ephesus. It was a love letter. He wanted to know why they no longer loved Him as they did at first. Isn\u2019t that amazing? That the Lord Jesus would care whether we love Him or not? Don\u2019t we all need to hear this today? You may be listening today and you feel lonely and unloved. You may wonder whether the Lord is even aware of your situation. Does He even care?<\/p>\n<p>Hear this: Jesus loves you. And he wants to know whether you love Him back. 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