{"id":7550,"date":"2019-08-18T15:41:06","date_gmt":"2019-08-18T19:41:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.garycombs.org\/blog\/?post_type=message&#038;p=7550"},"modified":"2019-09-16T09:58:24","modified_gmt":"2019-09-16T13:58:24","slug":"doing-life-together","status":"publish","type":"message","link":"https:\/\/www.garycombs.org\/blog\/message\/doing-life-together","title":{"rendered":"Doing Life Together"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Below is an automated transcript of this message<\/h3>\n\n\n\n <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"4.14\">All <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> right. Good morning, church. Good to see all of you here this morning. We&#8217;re starting a new series today,  \u201cHouse to House, Experiencing Your Best Life Together.\u201d  I&#8217;m thankful for that video testimony from Ryan and Paula Caberoy. We caught them before they moved to Texas. They moved here from Saudi Arabia.   They had moved from the Philippines to find a job and they found a job. Not only that, they found Christ in Saudi Arabia;  imagine that,  a place where Christianity is illegal and meeting in a church is illegal. But they had secret church in a house where they had to collect egg crates to make it quiet enough so they could worship. That&#8217;s where they found Jesus. And when they came to Wilson, she took a job as a nurse across the street at the hospital. They were looking for a church that had small groups, and they found one here. And so many of you were sitting here this <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"59.13\">morning <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> that were in their small group. And I know you feel as I do; I miss them already, but I know that they&#8217;re growing in Jesus at their new place in Texas. We&#8217;re thankful for them.   <br \/><br \/>\nNow, here&#8217;s the thing; stories like that are all over our church and they&#8217;ve been true. These kinds of stories of life change are  in small gatherings,  house to house.  They  have been true since the first century. <br \/><br \/>\nOur theme  verse that accounts for this is in  Acts  5: 42,  \u201cAnd every day in the temple and from house to house, they did not cease teaching and preaching that the Christ is Jesus.\u201d  I want you to notice two things about our sermon theme verse.   First, notice their commitment. Notice the commitment of the first century believers. It says that every day they did not cease. In other words, they had a commitment to Christ and to the body of Christ.   Then, notice they had a rhythm to their week. It says they met from the temple courts from the temple <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"122.465\">to <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> house the house, so they had a commitment to meet in large groups like we&#8217;re doing right now and then also to meet during the week in a small group because we need both. So they had a commitment and they had a rhythm, and they had a commitment to practice their Christianity together in these large groups like we&#8217;re doing but also house to  house. <br \/><br \/>\nNow, speaking of house to  house, have you noticed how architecture has changed in America in recent years?  In the early days, you could go to any town in America, you&#8217;d see these houses that had small front yards with these beautiful front porches.   People would be sitting on the front porch in the evening after work, drinking lemonade  or ice tea.  People would walk by and say hello and stop.   Maybe you&#8217;ve heard of this word \u201cneighborly;\u201d they would go up on the front porch, share in talking and sit together. But architecture&#8217;s changed. Today we no longer have front porches. We <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"184.865\">have <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> two-car garages. That&#8217;s the feature of the new American home. That way the American can come home from work, take their garage door opener, open the garage door, pull their car in and never have to see their neighbors. They could just go straight in the house.  We still have porches; we just put them on the back of the house. We call them  a deck, and we surround them  with privacy fences, so we no longer have to even acknowledge that we have people living next door. We live in an age where we have 1000 Facebook friends, but we&#8217;re lonely.  <br \/><br \/>\n A recent article in Psychology Today, Dr Frank J.Ninivaggi M.D. says this, .\u201cThe newest epidemic in America that now affects up to 47 % of adults\u2014double the number affected a few decades ago\u2026 is loneliness. This staggering data has relevance because of its correlation with increased risk for early mortality, risk rates similar to those for obesity and smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Also, the findings relate to adverse health risks such as higher systolic blood pressure, body mass index, and high-density lipoprotein cholesterol levels. Depression and suicide are also cited.\u201d   In other words, loneliness will kill you. It&#8217;s like being an overweight smoker. That&#8217;s basically what it say it is. It&#8217;s got this list of things that being out of relationship, not having relationships with others, puts you in a place that can put your life at risk.   <br \/><br \/>\nThe truth is, God created us for one another. First of all, He created us for Himself. Why did God make us? He made us for Himself. And then He made us for one another. We are relational beings,  created so by our father, the Creator. We were made to do life together. When Jesus was asked the greatest commandment. What did He say? Well, he gave a relational answer. He said, \u201cLove, God, love your neighbor as yourself.\u201d You were built, <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"312.005\">you <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> were made, to do life together. That&#8217;s what we&#8217;re gonna be talking about for the next four week, house to house,  experiencing your best life together. <br \/><br \/>\nAs we look in the book of Acts, chapter two, we&#8217;re gonna hit upon a well-known passage because this Acts 2:42  verse is the DNA of our community groups system,  our small group ministry here in our church. As we look at it in this book, I believe the Apostle Luke,  who wrote by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, wrote this passage. He described how the first century church was committed to doing life together in the body of Christ. I believe we can experience that same kind of amazing experience of being devoted to these four things. <br \/><br \/>\nHow can we do it? Well, as we look at the text, I think we&#8217;ll see four devotions  to doing life together in the body of Christ. Let&#8217;s look at Acts 2:42-47 (ESV) \u201c42 And they devoted themselves to the apostles&#8217; teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers. 43 And awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles. 44 And all who believed were together and had all things in common. 45 And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need. 46 And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, 47 praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved.\u201d  This is God&#8217;s Word.  Amen.   <br \/><br \/>\nWe&#8217;re looking for four devotions on how to do life together as the body of Christ. The first one  is this:  (1) Be devoted to studying the word together.   You&#8217;ll notice  the four  devotions in verse 42. They were devoted to the apostles\u2019 teaching,  to the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to the prayers. Let&#8217;s look at the first one;  the apostles\u2019 teaching.  They were devoted;  devoted  is <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"446.9\">an <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> interesting word in the Greek. It has the idea of continually, steadfastly facing towards a thing, not taking your eyes off of it.   It might could be translated \u201cto focus upon.\u201d   They were focused on four devotions and because it&#8217;s listed first, it has primacy. <br \/><br \/>\nThey were focused on the apostles\u2019 teaching. This is chapter two of Acts. The Holy Spirit has come in chapter one.  In the early part of chapter two at Pentecost, the spirit has fallen upon the apostle Peter.  He  preaches the first sermon and 3000 people get saved. So here&#8217;s a church that&#8217;s running 3 to 5000 people in the city of Jerusalem. They&#8217;re all Jewish background now because this gospel hasn&#8217;t gone to the Gentiles  yet. <br \/><br \/>\nAnd so what did they do? They gather in large groups; this is a mega church of  3000 minimum. They gather in the temple courts, which was probably in Solomon&#8217;s colonnade, because in those days you could get out of the sun and be in a <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"509.432\">large <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> gathering.   These are Jewish background people and the apostles would teach there. And then they would go house to house and eat together and unpack what they were learning. <br \/><br \/>\nWhat were the apostles teaching?  They weren&#8217;t teaching from the New Testament yet because it had not yet been written;  they were still writing it. They&#8217;re the guys that the Holy Spirit was inspiring to write it.   So they had the words of Jesus. We know that Jesus told them that the Holy Spirit would remind them of everything He ever said. And so they were preaching the Gospels before they were written because they were the guys that the Holy Spirit would inspire to write it. They were teaching every week regularly, but they were also unpacking Jesus from the Old Testament. So they were preaching Christ from the Old Testament. <br \/><br \/>\nHere&#8217;s what the believers were doing; they were sitting under the teaching of these sermons that the apostles were preaching and they were going back house to house and working it out together. This was the practice <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"565.792\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> This was the rhythm of that church that turned the world upside down. It had the most explosive growth of any generation. What would it look like to be a church like that today? Can we do it? We have the same God,  we have the same Lord and the same Holy Spirit.  We are  able to do it. <br \/><br \/>\nWhat is this apostles \u2019 teaching? It&#8217;s not just any teaching, but it&#8217;s the teaching of Jesus from the scriptures being applied to a present-day audience. So what do we do in our church? We do the same as they did. That&#8217;s our desire. We&#8217;re not trying to reinvent the wheel. We&#8217;re just trying to follow what we see in scripture. We do the same thing;  we say we&#8217;re going to meet in a large group. We&#8217;re going to hear the teaching and then we&#8217;re going to meet house to house during the week and unpack it together. This is the practice,  the rhythm and the commitment of the first century <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"618.754\">church <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. <br \/><br \/>\nWhat did it start looking like,  because they were devoted, because they were focused on these four devotions?   What did they begin to experience?   Think about it. Would you like to experience some of these things? The first thing they experienced that we see is in verse 43,    \u201cAnd awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles.\u201d  We like saying awesome;   that certainly they were getting together and they were saying, \u2018This is awesome.\u2019   <br \/><br \/>\nDo you know what awe is? It&#8217;s a sense that something beyond explanation is taking place, something otherworldly that I&#8217;ve never encountered before and really have a hard time explaining, but I can sense it is going on. That&#8217;s what started happening as they were devoted to the apostles\u2019 teaching and  to the fellowship, the breaking of bread and prayers. It fell upon their souls.  Have you ever felt it? Maybe you felt it today. Maybe you&#8217;re here this morning and as  soon as you pulled <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"687.004\">in <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the parking lot, you felt something. Do you know why that&#8217;s possible? We were praying today that as people pulled in the parking lot, they would feel the presence of the Holy Spirit. Maybe.  as you encountered people at guest services,  and they said, \u2018Good morning.\u2019  Maybe you begin to feel something like, \u2018What is that? What is that thing I&#8217;m feeling?\u2019   It&#8217;s not a thing. It&#8217;s a person who&#8217;s called the Holy Spirit. He&#8217;s welcoming you here today.   We&#8217;ve invited Him  to be in this room. Do you welcome Him? That&#8217;s where the  awel comes from. <br \/><br \/>\nSome of you might say, \u2018I feel like I\u2019ve  got chill bumps popping up on my arms.\u2019  The person next to you know might say, \u2018I feel like shouting.\u2019  The person next to you might say,  \u2018I feel like being really quiet.\u2019   Which one of you is  right? All of you are right.  It hits  us all differently, but we all know something awesome is taking place that&#8217;s <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"741.068\">hard <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> to put into words. That&#8217;s the first impact that is listed here by the Apostle Luke. <br \/><br \/>\nThen, he says in Verse 43,  \u201cand many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles.\u201d  The  Lord God does miracles but  it was being done through their ministry and they were seeing signs and wonders. A sign points  not to itself, but to the one Lord.  A sign should never point to the apostles  or to me or to you. They point to give glory to God. <br \/><br \/>\nSomething was happening there. Miraculously, life change was happening. Marriages that were in trouble were being made whole.   Parents that were disconnected from their children were being made whole again. They were being brought together. People that were struggling with alcoholism and addiction were being set free. People that were dying of some disease or physical ailment  were healed. All of these and more; signs and wonders were taking place as the people did what they were focused on:  the apostles\u2019 teaching, the fellowship, the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"818.538\">breaking <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> of bread and prayer.  Don&#8217;t you want to get some of this in your life instead of just  getting up, going to work, going  to sleep, getting up, going  to work, going  to sleep\u2026   <br \/><br \/>\nI had somebody talk to me earlier this week, telling me,  \u2018What is it about people who show up on Monday morning? They can&#8217;t wait till Friday;  like we live for the weekend.\u2019  Is that your life? Is that what your life is  about?  Your life is  drudgery, monotony? Where&#8217;s the awe?  Where are the signs and wonders. Where is the miracle? You can&#8217;t get that by yourself. You have to know the Lord Jesus. You need one another. You need Him. You need one another. You can&#8217;t do the one anothers without one another. You gotta have one another. You gotta have the Lord. You gotta have each other to experience these things. It begins with <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"877.421\"> <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> submission;  to submit to the preaching of the word and  to say \u2018Yes, I will sit under it and I will let it change my way of thinking.\u2019<br \/><br \/>\nHebrews 13:17 (ESV) \u201cObey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you.\u201d  They set under the apostles\u2019 teaching. Will you sit under the teaching of the Word? Will you let it change you?   <br \/><br \/>\nThey studied it together. They didn&#8217;t just sit under it in the temple.  They gathered house to house and they unpacked it together. Colossians 3:16 (ESV)  \u201cLet the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.\u201d  So we have to have something to share;  we need to soak it up.   Then,  we get together and we share it with one another. <br \/><br \/>\nThe thing about our community groups that we say <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"939.831\">is <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> we want to move what we  learned on Sunday morning from head to heart.   You&#8217;re soaking it up right now.  We&#8217;ve given you a bulletin to take notes in.   We&#8217;ve handed you a devotional guide,  a twenty-day devotional guide that you can start tomorrow and be on your own soaking this up. But when you come together, you bring that which you&#8217;ve soaked up.   When we say \u2018head to heart,\u2019  we&#8217;re not saying some weird spiritual way or some explanation.  We&#8217;re saying how to  apply it;  learn how to move it into your life so you begin to apply it. And the way that works is you&#8217;re just being honest with each other. You&#8217;re sitting face to face and knee to knee with a cup of coffee or eating some food together. You start getting real  and saying, \u2018I&#8217;m trying to work this out, but I gotta be honest with you.  I am having a little trouble in this area.\u2019   And the person across the table says,, \u2018So am I.\u2019   That&#8217;s what we&#8217;re talking about. <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"999.152\">Getting <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> together and sharing the word of Christ and beginning to encourage one another, moving it from head to hear, by  studying the word together. <br \/><br \/>\nWould you do this, which you consider this? Here&#8217;s number two. Here&#8217;s their second devotion, and it can be ours too.  (2)   Be devoted to fellowshipping together.  Now, when I came up with the word \u201cfellowshipping,\u201d  I first thought,\u2019Is this a real word?\u2019  When I wrote it down, it didn&#8217;t seem like a real word and so I  asked Webster because he&#8217;s the guy that tells you if it&#8217;s a real word or not.   I don&#8217;t know how he comes up with it; he just decides it must be a real word. But anyway, it&#8217;s a real word.  It&#8217;s in the noun form. Look at verse 42, \u201cThey devoted themselves to the fellowship. Not any fellowship, not a fellowship. The fellowship. What fellowship? The <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1050.492\">fellowship <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> of the body of Christ. That fellowship, that very specific fellowship.  The word,  fellowship,  is so rich that it I couldn&#8217;t just say be devoted to being together because it needed to be that word. <br \/><br \/>\nCan I give you the Greek word here? I won&#8217;t give you a lot of Greek words today, but here&#8217;s one.  Koinonia. They were devoted to the Koinonia. Now, somebody once said that here&#8217;s what fellowship is;  fellowship is \u2018two fellas in a ship.\u2019  Okay, that&#8217;s not quite it. That would be the world&#8217;s kind of fellowship. But when we&#8217;re talking about Koinonia, you need at least three in the ship. You need two believers that are part of the body of Christ and you need the Holy Spirit. That&#8217;s how you get Koinonia.   You can&#8217;t have Koinonia  without the Holy Spirit. And you can&#8217;t have Koinonia  without one another. <br \/><br \/>\nYou could have set closer <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1113.756\">together <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> to prove to me that you&#8217;re convinced by what I&#8217;m saying. Look at that big empty section of seats right there. What is wrong with that? By the way, over the next four weeks, we&#8217;re not going to play. Not that we ever do.   You can&#8217;t do the one another&#8217;s without two one another.   We&#8217;re going to get this. You&#8217;re going to get this before the mornings over.. You can&#8217;t do the one another&#8217;s without one another.  I am not saying you&#8217;re strong,  because you&#8217;re not. You&#8217;re very weak, but you&#8217;re going to get it. We&#8217;re gonna build you up. <br \/><br \/>\nHere&#8217;s what we&#8217;re working on:   this word Koinonia, this fellowship.   Notice in verse 44; we&#8217;re going to start working out the outcome of the four devotions and you&#8217;ll start seeing in verse 44 the  outcomes, and it seems to be outcome specifically from Koinonia.   From the fellowship of  verse 44 all who believed and worked together. You have to <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1182.366\">get <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> together. You have  to sit together, be together, eat together, do things together. Some of you are  sitting here right now thinking, \u2018But I don&#8217;t like doing that.\u2019  That&#8217;s your problem. The sin nature does what Adam and Eve did; it hides from God and it blames one another for all their problems. Go back and read it in Genesis;  sin makes us  isolate,  hide and pull away. But when we&#8217;re right with God, when we love God, we also love one another. It changes us. We recognize our need for fellowship for Koinonia.   <br \/><br \/>\nNotice in verse 44,  \u201cthey were together and they had all things in common.\u201d   The word common is the root of the word, Koinonia.  They had all things in common.   In other words, they said,  \u201cmicasa sucasa.\u201d   My house is your house. My car is your car. My groceries air your groceries. <br \/><br \/>\nSome of you get really nervous. Now I see now why you set so far away that you can <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1250.301\">get <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> to your cars quickly when I start talking like this.   I don&#8217;t know about you, but my car is  my car, mi casa or whatever you&#8217;re talking about is mi casa. It&#8217;s my house.   But here&#8217;s what starts happening. People start saying stuff like this,  \u2018My community group and the members are closer to me than my blood relatives. They&#8217;ve done things for me that my own family has never done. When I&#8217;ve been out of work, they brought groceries to my house. When I needed a baby sitter because of something happening, they came knocking at my door.\u2019   What is this? This is called Koinonia  and  it&#8217;s called the fellowship. It&#8217;s called the thing that happens when we&#8217;re right with God and right with one another, and we start sharing all things in common. <br \/><br \/>\nThey even went so far, it says, to  selling things so they could meet needs. If you want your needs to be met,  really met,  the way  God does it, he doesn&#8217;t usually just drop it <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1321.231\">out <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> of heaven.  He doesn&#8217;t parachute needs into your front yard.   That would be coo, but here&#8217;s what he does. He does it through his people. If you want to hang out with His  people, your needs are gonna be met. <br \/><br \/>\nWe have this thing online,  on Facebook,  called Have a Need, Meet a Need.   I see things happening there all the time. Somebody will post that they need something and then a whole bunch of people tag in and say, \u2018I have something you can have\u2019  or \u2018You can have mine\u2019  or \u2018I&#8217;ve got two;  you can have this.\u2019   There&#8217;s the church being the church. That&#8217;s awesome. There&#8217;s the Koinonia.   We&#8217;re devoted to one another. It gives us accountability. It encourages us. <br \/><br \/>\nHebrews 10:24-25 (ESV) \u201cAnd let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.\u201d    When we&#8217;re down, we lift each other up.   \u201cAnd all the more as you see the Day (capital D) drawing near.\u201d   What does  that mean? That&#8217;s the day that Jesus is returning.   He&#8217;s coming soon so we shouldn&#8217;t meet less;  we should meet more so that we get accountability and encouragement. <br \/><br \/>\nWhen we gather, we recognize, as I&#8217;ve been saying, the presence of the spirit in our midst. Listen to this blessing from Paul to the church of Corinth.  This has been a benediction;  a few would decide if you want to receive it, because I&#8217;m gonna give it to you right now. In the name of Jesus, listen to this, a benediction.  2 Corinthians 13:14 (ESV) The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all.\u201d   The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ; that&#8217;s the forgiveness that&#8217;s free,  that you don&#8217;t have to earn. Grace is unmerited. Favor and  grace; do you want some of that? The love of God; the unconditional love of God. And then here it is;  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1434.788\"> <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the Koinonia; the fellowship of the Holy Spirit,   be with you all. Did you get that? That&#8217;s coming your way, brother. That&#8217;s coming your way, sister. It\u2019s  yours. You can&#8217;t have Koinonia  without the Spirit,  without the love of God and  without the grace of Christ, because He is one Father, Son and Holy Spirit.   <br \/><br \/>\nJesus prayed. \u201cFather, make them one as we are one so the world will know that we are one.\u201d That&#8217;s beautiful. Community groups could also be called care groups. Some churches actually call them care groups. Some churches called them life groups. We call ours  community groups. They all do the same thing if they do the DNA of  Acts 2:42;  we think that&#8217;s where we get our DNA for our community group.<br \/><br \/>\nSometimes somebody will leave our church and we&#8217;ll check on them because we miss them. After a few Sundays, we&#8217;ll call them up and say, \u2018You okay, John? We&#8217;ve been missing you and Mary <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1499.651\">.\u2019  <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> They will reply,  \u2018Yeah, We&#8217;re not coming back. We just didn&#8217;t get connected.\u2019  That just hurts.  You didn&#8217;t get connected; did you attend a community group? Did you join a community group? Do you know why you didn&#8217;t get connected?  It\u2019s because you didn&#8217;t try. If you want to make friends, you gotta be friendly. If you want to do the one another&#8217;s, you&#8217;ve got to get next to one another.  If you keep isolating, you&#8217;re not going  get connected.<br \/><br \/>\nWatch the animal shows on TV.  Watch National Geographic when they&#8217;re in Africa. One <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1551.391\"> <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> antelope has  its head down eating grass and the herd leaves. That&#8217;s when the lions come. He raises up and realizes he\u2019s in danger.  What did he do wrong?  He forgot to stay with the herd.  Don&#8217;t be the antelope. <br \/><br \/>\nI would check on somebody, asking them,  \u2018Were have you been?\u2019  \u2018Oh,  I was sick and you didn&#8217;t check on me.\u2019  \u2018Are  you in a community group?\u2019 \u2018 No.\u2019  Now,  we&#8217;ve got the gifts of the spirit, but we&#8217;re not mind readers.   We&#8217;re commanded to do the one another&#8217;s. And if you don&#8217;t do one another and you get sick, we don&#8217;t know because you&#8217;re not connected because you&#8217;re not trying to be connected. You&#8217;re hoping you can sit in <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1617.083\">that <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> seat by yourself on Sunday morning, show up late, leave early and get out of your car before  anybody touches you or says anything to you. And then when you get in trouble, you&#8217;re blaming the church because that&#8217;s easy thing to do. Come on, now, listen to me. I&#8217;m telling you the truth in love. I want us to be one. I want us to get this stuff.   Be devoted to the apostles\u2019 teaching,  to the koinonia and  to the fellowship. You can&#8217;t do the one another&#8217;s without one another.  Okay, that  was a weak muscle, but you&#8217;re starting to build it up now. <br \/><br \/>\nNumber three (3)  Be devoted to breaking bread together. Be devoted to breaking bread together. We&#8217;re still in verse 42, \u201cthey devoted themselves.\u201d  They were continually focused on the breaking of bread, not a breaking of bread. Not just any breaking of bread;  the breaking of bread.   The fact that it says the breaking of bread <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1679.703\">causes <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> us to think it may mean the Lord&#8217;s supper. It may primarily mean that, and certainly I think it includes that. My interpretation is it&#8217;s both and not either, or.  <br \/><br \/>\nSome of you love to read commentaries.   I recommend that you find a couple of good commentaries when you&#8217;re studying a book like the book of Acts.   If  you&#8217;re reading one, you&#8217;ll find a commentary says this is definitely the Lord&#8217;s Supper. You&#8217;ll open up another one,  and it will say that it is  definitely was a love feast,  the agape  feast where they were eating together. What I&#8217;d like to do is take these two guys and just kind of put them  in the blender. I think it&#8217;s both; we&#8217;ll make a case for it now.  <br \/><br \/>\nI think it includes the Lord&#8217;s Supper. But then, as you go down into Verse 46 it says, (and I&#8217;ll read it to you from the new King James,)  \u201ccontinuing daily with one accord in the temple <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1731.183\">and <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> breaking bread from house to house, they ate their food with gladness and simplicity of heart.\u201d   This sounds like more than the Lord&#8217;s Supper. In fact, there was a practice. <br \/><br \/>\nIf you go over in Second Corinthians and read about this, there was a practice. If they would have the Agape  feast followed by the Lord&#8217;s Supper, so they would do both. And that&#8217;s my conviction about this. So, first of all community groups, shepherd&#8217;s leaders of community groups, you are released to do the Lord&#8217;s Supper in your community groups. You don&#8217;t need my permission. If you think you did, you just received it. If you need instruction, come to one of us and we&#8217;ll show you how to do it. It&#8217;s not hard, or you could just go to the Scripture and follow the instructions there. The main thing is that you&#8217;re together and you&#8217;re breaking bread and you&#8217;re recognizing the body of Christ broken for you. So it&#8217;s both.<br \/><br \/>\nHere&#8217;s the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1783.103\">thing <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> we know about about eating together. Don&#8217;t you know this, if you sit across the table from someone and you find out what they like and what they don&#8217;t like, that&#8217;s good. You may ask, \u2018Where&#8217;d you get that recipe?\u2019 You&#8217;re eating and drinking together;  you&#8217;re watching one another and you&#8217;re eating together.    Barriers begin to go down. There&#8217;s something about eating together that causes you to share a life together. And so all of our community groups, we ask you to keep these four devotions in balance.   Eat together, maybe do the Lord&#8217;s Supper together, and it results in verse 46, \u201cglad and generous hearts.\u201d   They receive their food with glad and generous hearts. <br \/><br \/>\nDo you want to be glad? Do you want to experience generosity, break bread together, bring to  a common table what you have. Bring your special recipes from your grandma&#8217;s and bring it together.  People may say,  \u2018That&#8217;s good. I&#8217;ve never had that before.\u2019  \u2018Oh yeah, <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1849.724\"><i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>my grandma taught me how to make that.\u2019   It just breaks down barriers. It&#8217;s a beautiful thing to eat together and to share a life together. <br \/><br \/>\nIn the book of First Corinthians,  chapter 10 it says that when we eat together, we should remember the Lord&#8217;s body and blood that we should remember that real life comes from Him. It says here, 1 Corinthians 10:16-17  (ESV) \u201c16 The cup of blessing that we bless, is it not a participation in the blood of Christ? The bread that we break, is it not a participation in the body of Christ? 17 Because there is one bread, we who are many are one body, for we all partake of the one bread.\u201d  That&#8217;s Koinonia,  is it not? <br \/><br \/>\nLet\u2019s look under the hood at the Greek word for participation.   Okay. Is it not Kononia? Is it not fellowship in the blood of Christ, and the bread that we break? Is it not a participation in the body of Christ? Because there is one bread,, and we who are many and  one body, for we all partake of the one bread or the one loaf. So we eat together. We <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1922.924\">recognize <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the body and blood of Jesus. We do it at the end of every one of our large gatherings  at our weekend service is. <br \/><br \/>\nEven when you&#8217;re just eating a common meal together, even if you&#8217;re not doing the words, we should always recognize the giver of life. And we share life together when we break bread together. Remember in the book of Luke, where the two disciples were walking on the road to Ameaus;  Jesus had been crucified. They had witnessed it. They&#8217;re broken hearted. \u2018What will we do now? We thought he was the Messiah. But now he&#8217;s dead.\u2019   They were commiserating together, and  Jesus comes walking up beside them. I find this a  hilarious story and  so beautiful.   Jesus comes up and He says, \u2018What are you talking about?\u2019  And they tell him.   \u2018Have you been hiding under a rock;  you did not know about Jesus being crucified?\u2019  Jesus says,  \u2018No, tell me about it. \u2018  They didn&#8217;t recognize Him;  they were  talking to Him. <br \/><br \/>\nThen,  He <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1989.434\">starts <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> telling them about the Messiah from the Old Testament.   He starts teaching them how the Messiah had to die;    they were stirred in their hearts and their hearts caught fire. They said, \u2018Stop and eat with us.\u2019  He says, No, I need to go.\u2019  They begged Him and so he stopped. <br \/><br \/>\nWhen Jesus  was at the table with them, He took bread,  blessed it,  broke it and gave it to them.   Their eyes were opened and they recognized Him and He vanished from their sight. They didn&#8217;t recognize Him before, but when they heard the blessing of the bread, which they&#8217;d heard Him do before and saw His hands, they knew it was Him. <br \/><br \/>\nMy mother died in 2001. She&#8217;s with the Lord Jesus now. I still remember her hands <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2048.764\">, <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the hands that fed me and changed me and the hands that blessed me and helped me when I was sick. I still remember her hands. I can close my eyes right now and I can see them.  You know, there&#8217;s something about people you look up to, whether it&#8217;s a parent,a grandparent or someone that you admire. You study their hands. <br \/><br \/>\nI used to sit on my father&#8217;s lap and he would put his hands around me like this. As I sat in front of him,  I would look down at his hands and I would put my hands inside of his.  I can remember his hands, too. My mother used to look at my hands and say, \u2018Your hands look just like your daddy&#8217;s hands.\u2019  Hands are  always kind of unique; even our fingerprints. <br \/><br \/>\nThey recognized the Lord\u2019s hands.   As He broke bread, they recognized the body of Christ. They recognized His voice. He prayed this prayer that every Hebrew child would know. It&#8217;s called the Baruch  The <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2115.474\">prayer <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> over the bread.  \u201cBaruch ata Adonai Eloheinu melech ha-olam, ha-motzi lechem min ha-eretz. Amen. \u201cBlessed art Thou, O Lord our God, King of the universe, who bringeth forth bread from the earth.\u201d Amen. There&#8217;s something special about eating and drinking together and recognizing the giver of life together. <br \/><br \/>\nNumber four; our final devotion (4)  Be devoted to praying together.   We&#8217;re looking at verse 42 again. We see the final devotion, the prayers. They were devoted to the prayers, not just one prayer, the prayers, all kinds of prayers. They were devoted to praying together. Verse 47 begins to kind of unpack how that looked, \u201cpraising God and having favor with all the people.\u201d There was something about these prayers that resulted in worship,  in oneness. <br \/><br \/>\nDavid Mathis, in his book, \u201cNine Profits of Praying with Company,\u201d said, \u201cPraying together is one of the single most significant things we can do to cultivate unity in the church. There is a unity that is given to those who are partners in Christ and share spiritual life in him. &#8230; praying together is both an effect of the unity we share in Christ, and it is a cause for deeper and richer unity. It is not only a sign that unity already exists among the brothers, but also a catalyst for more.\u201d <br \/><br \/>\nIf you&#8217;re already in a community group, are you praying together? And one of the things I recommend is as often as possible? I think you should change things up and keep it interesting. <br \/><br \/>\nGuys, when you were dating your spouse or single guys that still need advice, I&#8217;m gonna give you some right now.  Don&#8217;t pull up in the driveway and honk your horn. When she gets in the car, don\u2019t say, \u2018Honey, I&#8217;m in a big hurry; my laundry is in the back.   I was hoping I could drop you off at the laundromat and do my laundry. <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2245.956\">That&#8217;s <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> kind of what I had in mind for the date tonight and I&#8217;ll pick you up on the way back.  I will  try to get you a Pepsi or something.\u2019   Okay. How many ladies are signing up for that date? I&#8217;m going to marry that guy, right? Not many, right? If you say yes to that, we need to talk because you have some self esteem issues. <br \/><br \/>\nI don&#8217;t know what it is, but that&#8217;s what we do to God. That&#8217;s how we date God. We give Him our  laundry list. That&#8217;s how we talk to God. So we need to get together and learn how to pray.   Get with the older Christians; they know more about prayer than you do.   It develops your prayer muscle. Get together and pray. Don&#8217;t just pray your laundry list;  begin to pray to the point where it turns into praise. One of the ways that you can change it up so you don&#8217;t do the same thing every time, sometimes pray just men <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2293.676\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> Men go in one room and women go in another room.  Regardless of what the world says, men and women are differen; we  pray different.  If  kept together,  prayers are  \u2018surface stuff.\u2019  As soon as the men and the women separate, you can hear the women in the other room crying and the men crying harder because we just start telling the truth. Try that. You don&#8217;t have to do it like that every time. But there&#8217;s a rhythm to that. All kinds of prayers. <br \/><br \/>\nHere&#8217;s the thing. Healthy things grow. I want you to hear this.   Healthy things grow. The reason churches don&#8217;t grow is because  they&#8217;re not healthy. Why aren\u2019t  they healthy? It\u2019s because they&#8217;re not devoted. They&#8217;re not devoted to one another.  Because \u2018you can&#8217;t do the one another&#8217;s without one another.  I&#8217;ve tricked you there. I threw <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2348.496\">that <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> one in the middle and you weren&#8217;t ready. You guys are still not ready. You&#8217;re going to get it before you leave. You&#8217;re gonna get it. <br \/><br \/>\nCome together; you want to be healthy.  Healthy things grow. Here&#8217;s a saying. I want you to think about,  \u201cIf we will BE the church, Christ will BUILD  the church. Christ didn&#8217;t tell us to build the church. Here&#8217;s what he said to Peter,  \u201cUpon this rock, I will build my church.\u201d   That&#8217;s what Jesus said. What&#8217;s our job?  To BE the church; His job is to build the church. <br \/><br \/>\nLook at the last verse, \u201cand he added to their number day by day those that were being saved.\u201d  The Lord, he will add if we will BE.   He will build if we will BE.   Healthy things grow. What keeps anything  from being healthy?   When it is out of balance, You have to have a balanced diet. You have to have balanced exercise. We know these things are needed physically <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2410.376\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> <br \/><br \/>\nSpiritually, it&#8217;s the same.   If you want to be a church that has the kind of results that the first century church had, if you want the life changing miracles in your life, in your marriage, in your relationships,  then be devoted to one another and pray together.  \u2018I don&#8217;t know what words to say.\u2019   Open your mouth and say one sentence prayers. If you have a new person in your group, shepherds, don&#8217;t pray like champions in front of them.  For their first time, if they get there, and you pray with those 30 minute prayers, everybody passes out.  The new person is thinking, \u2018I&#8217;ll never be able to pray. That person is some kind of Olympic level gold medalist prayer person.\u2019  When a new person comes, a suggestion would be to say, \u2018Let&#8217;s just go around the room and pray for one thing. One thing you&#8217;re thankful for.\u2019   Teach each other to pray by praying all kinds of prayers. Then, as you grow,  your prayers get more muscle and you learn. Be the church. Be devoted to all kinds of prayers. <br \/><br \/>\nEphesians 6:18 (NIV) \u201cAnd pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord\u2019s people.\u201d\nPaul was speaking. He&#8217;s talking like a Southerner right here,  \u2018praying all kinds of prayers.\u2019   With this in mind, be alert. Always keep on praying for all the Lord\u2019s people.  Be devoted to  prayer, in all kinds of prayers and pray for one another. <br \/><br \/>\nJames 5:16 (ESV) \u201cTherefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.\u201d  Listen to James; therefore, confess your sins. In other words, be real.  Share your struggles don&#8217;t just pray for Grandma&#8217;s next door neighbors hangnail.   You&#8217;re sitting there and it\u2019s your  turn to pray, so  you&#8217;ll pray for your  grandma&#8217;s next door\u2026   because you  don&#8217;t want to come clean and say, \u2018Pray for me. Pray for me because I&#8217;m struggling in my marriage.\u2019   We don&#8217;t say that because we don&#8217;t want people to  know us. Confess your sins to one another and pray for one another that you may be healed <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2529.596\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> <br \/><br \/>\nThe prayer of a righteous person has great power.   Bear one another&#8217;s burdens and so fulfill the law of Christ.  There are over one hundred \u201cone another\u201d commands in the New Testament. And you can&#8217;t do even one of them without Christ because He makes it possible for us to be part of one another, and you can&#8217;t do even one of them without one another. That&#8217;s a little better. Still, not quite where we need to be, but you&#8217;re closer. You can&#8217;t do the one another&#8217;s without one another. You can&#8217;t even do one of them without one another. You have to get together and be devoted to one another. But it starts with being devoted to Christ and saying that we are members of His body. <br \/><br \/>\nI want you to think about a couple things over these next few weeks. One is to do the devotion do the daily devotion.   That will build you up so you have something to give to one another.  Another is to  attend the four services   You can check off the first one; you&#8217;ve been here for this one. If you&#8217;re <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2598.741\">trying <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> to get a last minute vacay in or something and you&#8217;re gonna miss one,  go online. We usually have the vimeo up by Sunday evening. Go online and and watch it so you&#8217;ve got something to share with one another. You can come and bring what you&#8217;ve learned and what you&#8217;re struggling with.  You need to do some of these things if you want to experience what we&#8217;re seeing; the Lord offering  signs and wonders,  needs  being met, praise and favour with people outside the church and  the Lord growing our community group. If you want to see these things,  be devoted to one another by being devoted to the apostles\u2019 teaching,  to the fellowship and  the breaking of bread and prayer.   You can&#8217;t do the one another&#8217;s without one another.   <br \/><br \/>\nLet&#8217;s pray. Lord Jesus, thank you that you make us right with the father.   I pray right now for the person in the room that wants to be right with God. And you know, as you came in today that you haven&#8217;t been praying for you <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2676.098\">right <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> now. Would you pray with me? Thank you for Jesus. Thank you that he died on the cross for my sins and that he was raised from the grave and lives today.   I invite you now, Lord Jesus, I invite you now to come into my life and forgive me of my sin and make me a child of God. I want you as my lord and savior. The Bible says if you pray that,  believing,  he will save you and you make you a  child of God, I&#8217;m praying for you right now. Others are here today and you would say I know  Christ as  savior, but I&#8217;ve been isolating. I&#8217;ve been hurt by someone and I have pulled away. I haven&#8217;t learned how to do forgiveness. I haven&#8217;t learned how to reconcile. But I&#8217;m here today, Lord, and I&#8217;m confessing right now. Lord, I recognize that I need you.  . Lord, today I make a commitment to do something about that. t <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2746.668\">We <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> lift these prayers up to you knowing that you make it possible for us to experience the relationships that you designed us for. We pray in Christ&#8217;s name, Amen.\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The truth is we need God and we need one another. We are created for relationship. That\u2019s why Jesus said that the greatest commandment is to love God and love your neighbor as yourself (Luke 10:27). We were made to love God and one another. We were made to do life together!<\/p>\n<p>In the book of Acts, Luke recorded how the first century church was devoted to doing life together as the body of Christ. 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