{"id":7367,"date":"2019-02-17T10:01:16","date_gmt":"2019-02-17T15:01:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.garycombs.org\/blog\/?post_type=message&#038;p=7367"},"modified":"2019-02-28T13:22:06","modified_gmt":"2019-02-28T18:22:06","slug":"stopping-the-strife","status":"publish","type":"message","link":"https:\/\/www.garycombs.org\/blog\/message\/stopping-the-strife","title":{"rendered":"Stopping the Strife"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3>Below is an automated transcript of the message:<\/h3>\n <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2.04\">Thanks <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> for listening to the podcast from Gary Combs and the  preaching team at Wilson Community Church in Wilson, North Carolina. Check us out on the web at wccnc.org  for more and now here&#8217;s the sermon. <br><br>\nAll right, We&#8217;re still in the book of Nehemiah; this is awesome. We&#8217;re going through the book of Nehemiah one  chapter at a time, and we&#8217;re in Chapter five this morning and we&#8217;ve entitled this series  Rise Up. Rise Up is,  first of all, a sermon series  and then secondarily, it&#8217;s a generosity initiative, making room for more people in our house, which is God&#8217;s house. But it comes from Nehemiah, Chapter two, verse eighteen,  where Nehemiah went to the people of Jerusalem and  said, Do you see the condition of the walls? How they&#8217;re broken down? And he tells him how the king has given him permission to rebuild, howthe Lord God&#8217;s hand is upon him and he asked the people to see this and respond to it. And <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"60.73\">the <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> people said , Let us rise up and build so they strengthened  their hands for the good work. And so that&#8217;s where we get the theme of this series,  Rise Up. <br><br>\nGod gave Nehemiah a vision to rebuild the walls and the gates that surrounded Jerusalem and the people responded.  But here&#8217;s the  thing. The minute you start responding to God&#8217;s vision in your life, there&#8217;s always going to be opposition. We talked about that last week. It&#8217;s not, maybe there will be,  it\u2019s  there will be opposition, and often the opposition comes from outside the body of Christ or outside your family or outside your life. So it&#8217;s people that are pulling you down or challenging what you&#8217;re doing. <br><br>\nSometimes, and  this is kind of the hard part;  it comes from inside of you, or it comes from within your family. It comes within the family of God, even, and so strife begins to build up strife, that word of of disagreement, like there&#8217;s a disagreement between you and your spouse over God&#8217;s leading in <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"124.19\">your <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> life, or there&#8217;s a disagreement between you and your parents, or you and your children, or you and the person sitting next to you  wherever you&#8217;re sitting right now or somebody across the way. <br><br>\nWe&#8217;ve said this through the weeks,  that Jesus said that the gates of Hades cannot prevail against the church.  He says, \u201cUpon this rock, I will build my church and the gates of Hades cannot prevail against it.\u201d   But here&#8217;s what can make a difference and really slow the church down; it is not so much the outside enemy but us. We can slow ourselves down through discouragement, opposition, but also through internal strife.   Often today in America,  that strife comes from the way we view. Here comes that word that makes Christians in America so nervous:   Money.   The way we look at money, because often money has a really strong grip on our hearts. <br><br>\nJohn Piper, who talks about the way Christians should live,  said, that we should live with a wartime lifestyle. Here&#8217;s what he <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"194.14\">writes. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> In wartime, we spend money differently. There is austerity not for its own sake, but because there are more strategic ways to spend money. No matter how grateful we are, gold will not make the world think that our God is good. It will make people think that our God is gold. So no matter how much we talk about our good God, if we&#8217;re putting our gold first, the world starts thinking Christians are just like the rest of America. We care more about our stuff, our possessions, our money than we do about people and about serving God. <br><br>\nRon Blue, who writes a lot about Christian stewardship, said this,  \u201cThe use of God-given resources for the accomplishment of God-given goals is the definition of Christian stewardship.\u201d   Let me just think about that with you for a second. Leave that up on the screen just for a second. What is Christian stewardship? How should Christians manage what God gives them? Ron Blue, <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"259.65\">I <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> think, gives us a good definition to use.   God-given resources are for the accomplishment of God-given goals. This has an understanding  for the believer who comes and says, I identify with Jesus, who died for me, was buried and raised again. And so the person comes and they say, Yes, I confess, Jesus as my Lord and Savior. And so then, symbolically, we put them underwater so that the old life dies. The old life is gone and then risen to new life in Chris Jesus.  <br><br>\nThis is a picture of what Jesus did and as we make that commitment,  here is  what we&#8217;re saying,  \u2018Everything I am, and everything I have is now yours.\u2019  Here&#8217;s the funny thing; it was already His. It&#8217;s just we&#8217;re finally agreeing with God. He made us. He made everything there is. <br><br>\nThe Scripture says that the earth is His and the people thereof. It is all <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"326.49\">His. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. When we give our lives back to Him, we&#8217;re agreeing with Him, and we&#8217;re saying, \u2018This is my act of worship; everything I have and everything I am is Yours.\u2019 <br><br>\nSo this process, though, really causes a lot of strife inside of us, because since we were born, we&#8217;ve been crying, \u2018Me, me, me.\u2019   No one has to teach a baby to cry to have its diaper changed or to  have more milk.   We&#8217;re all born with the selfishness gene. We want to put self first.   A lot of times,  when I&#8217;m doing marriage counseling, the first thing I notice when I&#8217;m talking to a young couple is almost all their arguments have to do with me, me, me, he, he, he,  or she, she she.  But it&#8217;s really me, me, me  and what they&#8217;re doing is they&#8217;re pointing at the other, not living up to their expectations and not meeting their needs.  I would say, nine  out of ten <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"386.033\">times <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. selfishness is at the heart of strife in a marriage where they just can&#8217;t agree. <br><br>\nThe husband wants a new truck or a  big screen TV for his man cave, and the wife needs some new curtains and some new furniture. And and she&#8217;s got this whole list of things that matter a lot more than his toys. And probably, more often than not, she&#8217;s more practical than he is; not every time but often.   Then kids enter the picture. I don&#8217;t know how that happens to you. We start having kids, then they have their needs and wants, and you start going,  \u2018Well, when do I get mine?\u2019   And so we have strife in the house, and we have strife in the church because the church is just God&#8217;s people. That&#8217;s who we are; we are the family of God. <br><br>\nSo how do you do this? How do you manage your stuff; your possessions, the three T\u2019s, your time, talent, treasure? Because that&#8217;s all you have. We all have a <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"448.133\">certain <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> amount of time. We all have a certain amount of gifting talents and we all have a certain amount of treasure. How do you manage it? Do you do it based on what you want? Or do you pray about it and you ask God what he wants and you put others first so that you love God and you love your neighbor as yourself?   Check your heart,  because this is what&#8217;s causing the trouble in Nehemiah in  \nchapter five;  strife, internal strife over their finances. <br><br>\nWe&#8217;re going to look in  book of Nehemiah,  chapter five, and as we look, we&#8217;ll see that Nehemiah led the the people to stop their financial strife that had arisen between them and against God&#8217;s mission. And I believe that we can stop the internal financial strife that arises in our house against God&#8217;s mission. How can we do it? The text, I believe, gives three steps.<br><br>\nLet&#8217;s look at Chapter five.   Let\u2019s  read God&#8217;s word and then we&#8217;ll comment on it. \n\u201c Now there arose a great outcry of the people and of their wives against their Jewish brothers. 2 For there were those who said, \u201cWith our sons and our daughters, we are many. So let us get grain, that we may eat and keep alive.\u201d 3 There were also those who said, \u201cWe are mortgaging our fields, our vineyards, and our houses to get grain because of the famine.\u201d 4 And there were those who said, \u201cWe have borrowed money for the king&#8217;s tax on our fields and our vineyards. 5 Now our flesh is as the flesh of our brothers, our children are as their children. Yet we are forcing our sons and our daughters to be slaves, and some of our daughters have already been enslaved, but it is not in our power to help it, for other men have our fields and our vineyards.\u201d  6 I was very angry when I heard their outcry and these words. 7 I took counsel with myself, and I brought charges against the nobles and the officials. I said to them, \u201cYou are exacting interest, each from his brother.\u201d And I held a great assembly against them 8 and said to them, \u201cWe, as far as we are able, have bought back our Jewish brothers who have been sold to the nations, but you even sell your brothers that they may be sold to us!\u201d They were silent and could not find a word to say. 9 So I said, \u201cThe thing that you are doing is not good. Ought you not to walk in the fear of our God to prevent the taunts of the nations our enemies? 10 Moreover, I and my brothers and my servants are lending them money and grain. Let us abandon this exacting of interest. 11 Return to them this very day their fields, their vineyards, their olive orchards, and their houses, and the percentage of money, grain, wine, and oil that you have been exacting from them.\u201d 12 Then they said, \u201cWe will restore these and require nothing from them. We will do as you say.\u201d And I called the priests and made them swear to do as they had promised. 13 I also shook out the fold[a] of my garment and said, \u201cSo may God shake out every man from his house and from his labor who does not keep this promise. So may he be shaken out and emptied.\u201d And all the assembly said \u201cAmen\u201d and praised the Lord. And the people did as they had promised.\n14 Moreover, from the time that I was appointed to be their governor in the land of Judah, from the twentieth year to the thirty-second year of Artaxerxes the king, twelve years, neither I nor my brothers ate the food allowance of the governor. 15 The former governors who were before me laid heavy burdens on the people and took from them for their daily ration[b] forty shekels[c] of silver. Even their servants lorded it over the people. But I did not do so, because of the fear of God. 16 I also persevered in the work on this wall, and we acquired no land, and all my servants were gathered there for the work. 17 Moreover, there were at my table 150 men, Jews and officials, besides those who came to us from the nations that were around us. 18 Now what was prepared at my expense[d] for each day was one ox and six choice sheep and birds, and every ten days all kinds of wine in abundance. Yet for all this I did not demand the food allowance of the governor, because the service was too heavy on this people. 19 Remember for my good, O my God, all that I have done for this people.\u201d  This is God\u2019s Word, Amen.  <br><br>\nWe are looking for three steps for stopping the internal strife that really comes against God&#8217;s mission.   Here is  the first step:   Acknowledge our tendency for greed.  Acknowledge our tendency for greed. You might be sitting there going, \u2018He&#8217;s talking about somebody next to me\u2019  and you&#8217;re thinking of that person right now, I know somebody like this. <br><br>\nI would suspect that we all struggle with this tendency because it&#8217;s part of the sin nature; that idea that I need more. I&#8217;m never satisfied. The more I get, the more I want. And that&#8217;s what&#8217;s going on here in  verses one through five. We see the outcry. We see the problem. It&#8217;s interesting <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"758.927\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> this phrase in verse one. \u201cNow there arose.\u201d   <br><br>\nWe&#8217;ve got a lot of rising up in this book; lots of rising up here. A great outcry arises. And as I was looking at this book, we look and we see that it stands in contrast to some of the earlier statements.  In the midst of a great work serving a great God, there was a great outcry. What&#8217;s the outcry? The rich people are stealing and robbing from the poor people, and they&#8217;re not sacrificing like the poor people. The poor people are sacrificing at a much higher level, than the rich people. That seems to be like the overall thing.  There are at least four groups in versus one through   five as we look at it. <br><br>\nFirst of all, let&#8217;s not forget verse one. This is something that I thought was interesting that Nehemiah includes, he says that  their wives were part of the outcry. It&#8217;s like the husbands have been up there working, and their <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"817.757\">wives <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> have been telling them,  \u2018You need to tell Nehemiah  that people are ripping us off while we&#8217;re working on the wall.  We are focused on the wall, but our kids are starving to death at home.\u2019 The husband&#8217;s were like, \u2018I don&#8217;t want to bother him;  he&#8217;s really busy.\u2019  The wives are the ones who are very practical; they are the ones who have to feed the kids probably, you know. <br><br>\nSo they show up, and it&#8217;s just kind of a unique sentence.  There arose  a great outcry of the people and of their wives that you have  a clue as to just how bad things had gotten. If the wives got involved, had  I better do something about it? Because there&#8217;s a split forming in the people of God here.   <br><br>\nThere are  at least three groups crying out against a fourth group. There are those who were many who had no land and could only  eat the bread that they could earned by the sweat of <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"868.339\">their <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> brow. That was the first group in verse two and three. There&#8217;s this group who had land, but they were in debt so bad that they really didn&#8217;t own. It was mortgaged up to its limit, so they couldn&#8217;t eat because they couldn&#8217;t borrow anymore. <br><br>\nThere was another group in verse four that owed taxes to the king on their land. They owed back taxes and so they&#8217;re selling their kids into slavery. <br><br>\nAnd then there&#8217;s that final group that&#8217;s implied they were profiting off of the trouble of the rest. They were prospering off of others poverty. They were not living for the mission. They were living for themselves. They were profiting on the backs of other believers. This is true.  If you were involved in leading any church in America, you would know this often repeated little fact, that twenty percent of church members and  church attenders do eighty percent of the work and give eighty percent of the offerings in order to support the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"935.229\">work <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. Twenty percent do eighty percent. Just go to any church in America and you can find that now. We&#8217;re thankful to the Lord that this church is healthier than that, not by much, but we&#8217;re growing. I&#8217;ve told people these Rise Up shirts are pretty cool. But what we all need, including me, is a shirt that says \u201cUnder construction.\u201d   Don&#8217;t judge me because we&#8217;re all growing. We&#8217;re all growing right. But we often allow other people to sacrifice so that we have a seat,so that we have a church to worship in. Other people are serving and taking care of the kids next door. Other people are greeting; someone will do it. I just need a place I can go,  I&#8217;m so busy.   When I get my life together,  then I&#8217;ll serve, then I&#8217;ll give, then I&#8217;ll participate.   <br><br>\nFriends You&#8217;re never going to get your life together because it&#8217;s always going to be&#8230; You&#8217;re going to need Jesus desperately to get your life together and part of getting your life together is making a <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1000.076\">commitment <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> to Him to give Him all that you have and all that you are, and then let Him reorder your life. That is what&#8217;s needed. <br><br>\nWhat is greed? I looked it up in the dictionary. It says this according to Merriam Webster, a selfish and excessive desire for more of something such as money than is needed. In other words, it&#8217;s just want more than you need; that&#8217;s what it is. If you constantly want more than you need, then you&#8217;re struggling with this sin called greed. The Book of Proverbs says greed causes fighting, but trusting the Lord leads to prosperity. <br><br>\nThat&#8217;s what&#8217;s going on in the city of Jerusalem. Here they are. They&#8217;ve been working. And now greed is about to cause the strife that stops the work. You see, money&#8217;s not the problem, Really. We say, Well, you know, doesn&#8217;t The Bible says that money is the root of all evil? Doesn&#8217;t the Bible say that money is the root of all evil? Isn\u2019t  that in <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1056.806\">the <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> Bible?   Pop the verse up because we&#8217;ve got some very advanced Christians correcting me right now;  I read that verse, it doesn&#8217;t say that.   You&#8217;re right; it says the love of money. Look at that; it doesn&#8217;t say money. Money is just this neutral thing. It&#8217;s a symbolic representation of goods of something that you&#8217;ve earned that you can exchange. It&#8217;s neutral. How you use it is what makes it either good or evil. <br><br>\nIn the book of First Timothy it says, \u2018but people who long to be rich fall into temptation and are trapped by many foolish, harmful desires.\u2019  They plunged into ruin and destruction for the love of money, not money. The love of it is the root of all kinds of evil, and some people craving money have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows. <br><br>\nHere&#8217;s the problem. If you love money, you  love that you can depend on it rather than <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1116.038\">God <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. See, now I don&#8217;t have to pray. I can just take it out of my savings account. God really wants you to learn. Young believers and believers that are growing,  He wants you to learn to depend on him and not on your own self effort. And not on your own self worth. He wants you to learn. Depend on Jesus. <br><br>\nNow, is this church a wealthy church? No. I saw the cars you were driving in the parking lot. I visit your homes. I know where you live. This has never been a wealthy church. Listen, I don&#8217;t know what it is that God&#8217;s doing here. But he gave us a building across from the hospital because we&#8217;re obviously the hospital church.   People come in here who are broken,  busted, addicted and  in trouble; the Lord Jesus makes changes in their life and their life changes. And so we can&#8217;t sit here and go well, you\u2019ve  got that rich person that can stroke a check and fix everything <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1174.558\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> We&#8217;ve never had that. And we&#8217;re twenty seven years old. <br><br>\nGod has always said I&#8217;m going to do miracles through the people least likely in the city of Wilson to be able to do a great thing. I&#8217;m going to do a great work in you, and I&#8217;m so happy about that. I wasn&#8217;t at first. I was like, man, this could take a long time, and it sure has. I was thirty two years old. We started this church, and now look at the old guy  up here  talking to you.  But I wouldn&#8217;t take anything for this journey now because God is growing His people and He&#8217;s doing miracles. <br><br>\nDo you think beyond yourself when you think about your stuff and  your money? Do you think beyond your little family when you think of your car, your house, your finances? Or do you think, how can I use this on God&#8217;s mission for God&#8217;s people as an expression of love or you constantly thinking like the last thought in your mind before you go to sleep at night  or the  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1238.65\">first <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> thought in the morning is worrying and thinking about your stuff or your money?   If you&#8217;re doing that, be aware that that sounds like the love of money. If you&#8217;re giving it to God and you&#8217;re saying, \u2018God, Your car just broke down, You need to get it fixed.\u2019   It&#8217;s kind of a freeing thing. <br><br>\nHere&#8217;s number two.   Repent of our selfish practices we covered in verses one through five. There was a great outcry. There was unequal sacrifice among God&#8217;s people. The rich people could have been sacrificing way more, but they weren&#8217;t. They were letting the poor people do all the sacrificing while they were enriching themselves. That was the habit that we see going on here. So what did Nehemiah do about this? How did he respond in verse  six? It says he got very angry. He got ticked off, and I think the Lord&#8217;s really with this man because he didn&#8217;t do anything at first when he was angry. Look at verse six. \u2018I was very angry when <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1303.85\">I <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> heard their outcry.\u2019   I was ticked. So what&#8217;s his first action in verse seven?  \u2018I took counsel with myself.\u2019  That&#8217;s what I wish I would do. God bless Nehemiah. The Lord was with him. He got very angry and he took counsel with himself <br><br>\nLiterally in the Hebrew, it means he l literally consulted with his own heart because himself in the Hebrew means heart. And so he had a heart check. It&#8217;s like he pulled away.   I am ticked off and that I want to go hurt some people right now.   Check my heart, okay? I need to calm down, and then he gets wisdom from the Lord. He counts to ten, right? That&#8217;s just a good little tip right there in the midst of everything that sometimes we shoot off our  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1365.485\">mouth <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> too soon before we counsel with our own hearts. <br><br>\nVerse seven says after he did that he brought charges against the people that had been misusing the poor people. The first charge was you are exacting interest that was against the Torah. That was against the law. <br><br>\nDeuteronomy, Chapter twenty three, verse nineteen. \u201cDo not charge your brother interest, whether all money or food or anything else\u2026\u201d  So they were breaking God&#8217;s law by charging interest on their brothers. So he brought a charge against them that was biblical. Verse eight says, \u201cyou&#8217;re selling your brothers\u2026.\u201d  That&#8217;s what they did to us in Egypt. That&#8217;s what they did to us in Babylon. Now you&#8217;re treating us the same way they treated us. What&#8217;s wrong with you selling your brothers? <br><br>\nIn verse  nine,  He makes a moral argument. \u201cThat&#8217;s not good&#8230; \u201c  I just feel like he consulted with himself. But there&#8217;s still a little bit of steam in there because he says, \u201cthat&#8217;s not good.\u201d Verse nine is so <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1427.915\">rich <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. Look at verse nine, he said. \u201cSo I said, The thing you were doing is not good.\u201d  This is not good. \u201cOught not you to walk in the fear of our God.\u201d  Don&#8217;t you fear God the way you&#8217;re managing your life? Aren&#8217;t you a little worried that God&#8217;s going to judge you someday based on the way you lived your life?   Don&#8217;t you fear God?  <br><br>\nThere&#8217;s a three-part kind of a point that he&#8217;s making in verse nine. I almost decided to  just read verse nine and preach that because there are three good points.  Every preacher loves three points: (1)  It&#8217;s not good (2) You should fear God. And then here&#8217;s the third one. (3) What kind of example are you giving to our enemies? They all think, well, we don&#8217;t need to oppose them at all. They don&#8217;t. They&#8217;re doing a good job of opposing each other in the way they&#8217;re mistreating each other. So that&#8217;s how Nehemiah responded. He wasn&#8217;t finished. <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1488.025\">, <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> He says in verse eleven  to return  the stuff. Yeah, I want you to be sorry and repent, but here&#8217;s the best thing you could do to prove that you mean it. Give their stuff back, give the interest back, giving their land back, give their daughters and their sons back so they can do the work,  you&#8217;re keeping them from doing the work. They get their wives up in here telling them to come home. Come on, people give their stuff back. And then they said they would.<br><br>\n And then in verse twelve, which is kind of interesting,  he brought the priests in. We&#8217;re gonna have these guys sign a contract with the priests, make them  swear that they&#8217;re going to give the stuff back. Nehemiah is thinking, I don&#8217;t trust these guys. And they said Amen. And they kept the promise. Here&#8217;s how the nobles responded. First of all, in verse eight,  they were silent. They&#8217;d have words to say in  verse twelve. They <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1538.395\">said <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> we&#8217;ll do it , we will restore.  And  in verse thirteen, they said,  \u201cAmen.\u201d   <br><br>\nAnd how did the people respond in verse  thirteen?   They praised the Lord. See, people will praise the Lord when they see God&#8217;s people united and sacrificing together. We&#8217;re going to sacrifice together to accomplish God&#8217;s mission. I&#8217;m not going to be the one that creates strife in the church by going  I will wait and see what happens and if it looks like it&#8217;s going to succeed, maybe I&#8217;ll get involved like that. No, God&#8217;s calling all of us to be united. <br><br>\nDon&#8217;t create strife through your lackadaisical approach to life. You see, greed is idolatry. Colossians  says this,  \u201cPut to death the sinful, earthly things lurking within you.  Have nothing to do with sexual immorality, impurity lust and evil desires.\u201d   Don&#8217;t be greedy. For a greedy person is an idolater worshipping the things of this world. <br><br>\nDid you know the way you handle money is in the same list of sexual immorality and stealing? Did you know it&#8217;s in the same list?  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1607.394\"> <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>  It&#8217;s all sin. And here&#8217;s the problem with greed. It&#8217;s idolatry. <br><br>\nWhat&#8217;s idolatry? It&#8217;s when you put your worship and  your love on something other than God. So we were all built as worshipers. From dandalions  to dinosaurs we are the only people on planet Earth you know.   They don&#8217;t worship, but we do. We worship something. We were wired for it. We&#8217;re either going to worship our stuff or we are  going to worship the one true God.   We are  going to  worship something. <br><br>\nTim Keller said that worship is pulling our affections off of our idols and putting them on God. So going through a series like we&#8217;re going through right now  stings because we&#8217;re Americans and we are at risk of being the most idolatrous nation on planet Earth because we have the greatest temptation to want more stuff.  Everything on the TV, everything on Facebook, everything on Google is  all about convincing <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1682.664\">you <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> that you need more stuff, you know it&#8217;s true. <br><br>\nAnd then then we take a mission trip. We take a group of you to Guatemala. We take a group of you to Indonesia or a group to Uganda. These are  all places we&#8217;ve taken groups in the last few years.  We&#8217;re going back to Uganda and Guatemala this year. You go to a place like Uganda and you find out that what we earn in one week on average is what they earn in a whole year. And you see they are way happier than we are.  You wonder,  \u2018What&#8217;s up with that?\u201d  It\u2019s because they&#8217;re not thinking about stuff all the time. They&#8217;re thinking about their God, and they&#8217;re thinking about each other. <br><br>\nTake  your affections off of your stuff. Repent therefore and turned back that your sins may be blotted out. One of  the best antidotes for greed is generosity; break it inside of you by being a giver. Start when you go to lunch later today by  actually leaving  a tip for the first time <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1748.688\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> You know, I&#8217;ve heard from waitresses before. This is a terrible accusation. They hate working on Sunday for lunch because Christians don&#8217;t tip.   You&#8217;re making them work because you won&#8217;t eat at home because you&#8217;ve gotta go eat out so they can&#8217;t go to church. <br><br>\nI tried to invite them  at the Chinese restaurant to come to church. I can&#8217;t because I got to feed the Christians lunch and then they don&#8217;t tip because they&#8217;re the tightest bunch of people. You know what? We should be known for generosity.   If you don&#8217;t learn anything today, go out the door with this,  \u2018Pastor Gary said to start tipping big.\u2019 When they see you come in, they will want to wait on your  table.  Then, everything you say, they they have a tendency to believe it because you&#8217;re living it. Quit being so tight;  generosity is the antidote to greed.  Are you willing to repent of selfish living and to be looking on how you can honor God <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1818.366\">with <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> your financial practices? <br><br>\nNow here&#8217;s the final;  here&#8217;s number three:   Live a life of generosity towards God. So put away the greed,  repent of  the practices of greed. First of all, admit it  to yourself.   A lot of us have trouble with that. Having admitted it, we&#8217;re looking at these final verses fourteen through  nineteen, which you&#8217;re kind of like Nehemiah,  he talked about what the problem was. He talked about how he would address it, and then he talks about in fourteen to nineteen, how he was living, the model he was trying to live. It&#8217;s pretty unique, especially for this time.   Verses fourteen through  nineteen says that he had a different pattern of leadership than previous governors. He was a servant leader. He ceased enjoying the advantage of the food allowance that other governors had. He sees taxing the people. He could tax him, but he&#8217;d stop taxing them because they were so poor, and he brought and lived off of his own means.   <br><br>\nHe says, in verse seventeen,  at my table, I fed one <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1884.576\">hundred <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> fifty people every day at my own expense. Now listen, friends. Nehemiah is a millionaire. Money is not evil; it&#8217;s not that money itself is evil. It&#8217;s how you use it. How&#8217;s he using it at his own expense? He&#8217;s feeding one hundred fifty people. How do I know He&#8217;s a millionaire?  I don&#8217;t see that in the Bible. Well, let&#8217;s look at it for a second. Can you imagine slaughtering an ox a day in one year? Three hundred sixty five? That&#8217;s a lot of steak people. He was there twelve years. He says that right here in verse. What? Verse? Fourteen? Yeah, he was there twelve years as governor. He was slaughtering an ox everyday it&#8217;s three hundred sixty five a year times twelve. I think my math is right for thousand three hundred eighty heads of oxen of cattle. He had a big ole herd  or <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1948.632\">he <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> was buying it and that\u2019s  just the ox. He fed them six sheep a day. That&#8217;s a lot of sheep. Multiply that out, OK? Had a big flock, and then some birds.   I&#8217;m the kind of guy that has to kind of understand that.   They were at the table; one hundred fifty men, Jews and officials besides those who came to us from the nations. <br><br>\nWhat was prepared?  One ox, six sheep and birds. Now, what kind of birds? I&#8217;m thinking they&#8217;re Jewish so it&#8217;s gotta be chicken. I mean, isn&#8217;t that what the Jewish mom is known for? Chicken soup; chicken soup can heal anything. I don&#8217;t know when that started. When did we start eating chicken? <br><br>\nIn my study group  every Wednesday, we study for these sermons before we <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2003.482\">preach <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> at both of our locations,  Rocky Mount and here.   We have two locations for a church. We preach the same sermon in both locations. So we&#8217;re studying, and I gotta know. Why didn&#8217;t he name the birds? We know it&#8217;s chicken, but it could&#8217;ve been pheasants. I guess it could have been quail. It could have been something else. But I&#8217;m thinking then I&#8217;ve had this question. I had to ask Google. When did we first start eating chicken? When did we domesticate the chicken?   Some of the people at the table said, \u2018I don&#8217;t think we&#8217;re working on the sermon anymore. We need to go eat lunch.\u2019  I don&#8217;t know what kind of birds they were. I know he needed. He needed a herd of ox four thousand three hundred eighty oxen. He needed a flock of sheep. Twenty six thousand two hundred eighty sheep. This man&#8217;s wealthy, but what&#8217;s <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2054.262\">he <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> doing? <br><br>\nHe stopped attacks on the people. Well, he stopped asking for the food allowance and out of his own pocket he was feeding a hundred fifty people a day knowing that he says he&#8217;s working on the wall.  Not only that, he&#8217;s telling his servants to not  buy land. These poor people, they&#8217;ll sell you everything they have. Don&#8217;t you take advantage of them. You set the example and you serve and you work and you give. And I see Nehemiah, he&#8217;s looking like Jesus to me right here. He&#8217;s not Jesus, but he&#8217;s kind of a prototype. He&#8217;s kind of a glance forward of who Jesus is going to be. He&#8217;s not Jesus. He doesn&#8217;t sacrifice his life. But he is an example of a servant leader. And I believe that he was looking for an accounting someday. <br><br>\nLook at verse  nineteen, \u201cRemember for my good oh, my God, all that I have done for this people. Here&#8217;s what he&#8217;s saying. <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2119.264\">I&#8217;m <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> doing this for you. Lord, I&#8217;m doing this for that day when I see you. <br><br>\nThe book of Psalms  tells the story about a fool who built a big barn;  he already had a big barn slam full. But the harvest came in so sweet that year that he told his servants to build him a bigger barn so he could save more food. So they did. And then Jesus tells the story of God saying to the man after he had laid up all this extra treasure He says,  this night your soul is required of you and the things you&#8217;ve prepared whose will they be? So was the one who lays up treasure for himself and is not rich towards God. I want to be rich towards God. I want to be like Nehemiah who said,  God, I did this for you. I was rich towards you <br><br>\nAre you rich towards God in  the way you manage your time, your talent ,your treasure and your stuff?   Are you rich towards God? In the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2190.889\">book <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> of Second Corinthians,  Paul writes this concerning Jesus. He says, \u201cYou know the generous grace of our Lord Jesus Christ. Though he was rich yet for your sakes, he became poor so that by His  poverty he could make you rich.\u201d   You know that generosity of Jesus. You want to be more like Jesus. You&#8217;ve got to receive Him first. You got to say I&#8217;m broken. I&#8217;m selfish. That&#8217;s what&#8217;s wrong with our marriage. That\u2019s  what&#8217;s wrong with our  parenting. That&#8217;s what&#8217;s wrong with every broken place in their lives. We need the Lord to rebuild the wall. Have you ever done that? <br><br>\nLord Jesus, come into my life. I believe that you died for my sin and that you rose from the grave that you lived, come and live in me. I want to be a Christ follower and may I say to you as He comes to live in you,  be ready. He&#8217;s going to make you generous. He&#8217;s going to finally pry those fingers loose so that you can live the life <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2249.549\">of <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the open hand,  one hand open to God to receive one hand open to others to give just letting it flow to you and through  you. Oh, it&#8217;s a beautiful life to be like Nehemiah. More than that, to be like Jesus and to let Him empower us to be like Him. <br><br>\nThe book of proverbs says that  some people are always greedy for more but the godly love to give.   We love to give  because Jesus has given us everything. Let&#8217;s stop the strife of greed and selfish living in our lives,  church And let&#8217;s begin the life of extravagant generosity,  living with all that we have and all that we are for Jesus.   Let&#8217;s pray.<br><br>\n Lord Jesus,  there are at  least three types of people in this room. There&#8217;s one type that&#8217;s just is  beginning the journey, and they&#8217;re still learning. And this generosity stuff scares them because they think it&#8217;s up to them.  I pray for that person right now to recognize that everything belongs to God, it&#8217;s all a matter of trust. Just <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2327.224\">trust <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> Him. There is the believer who&#8217;s been growing and been a Christian for a long time.   Don&#8217;t get satisfied. He still wants you to grow. So, Lord, let&#8217;s pray for this mature Christian,  Lord, I put everything on the table again, holding nothing back. I thought I had sacrificed it all, but it&#8217;s all a fresh coming to me. I held something back. Don&#8217;t hold anything back. And then if you&#8217;re here today and you&#8217;re that third type of person you&#8217;ve never given your life to Jesus. Oh, we&#8217;re so glad you&#8217;re here. You&#8217;re the most important person in the room. Would you confess Jesus right now.   We care more about that than we do any decision you&#8217;d make today.   Would you pray this prayer with me right now? Right where you are.  Lord, I want to be a Christian. I want to be a child of God. I believe that you died on the cross for my sins. Jesus. I believe that you were raised from the grave and that you <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2389.304\">live <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> today. I believe that. And now I invite you to come into my life, come into my life and make me the person you want me to be. Forgive me of my sins and make me a child of God. I want you to be my Lord and Savior. If you&#8217;re praying that prayer right now believing in your heart and God will save you through his Son,Jesus.  Lord, we pray for that person right now knowing that that&#8217;s happening in this room.  We pray for everyone in this room now,  Lord, that you would make us a people marked by extravagant generosity, so the strife and the struggle is replaced by rest and trust in You.  In Christ&#8217;s name. 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