{"id":11650,"date":"2023-08-06T08:46:41","date_gmt":"2023-08-06T12:46:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.garycombs.org\/blog\/?post_type=message&#038;p=11650"},"modified":"2023-08-17T09:35:15","modified_gmt":"2023-08-17T13:35:15","slug":"admitting-our-brokenness","status":"publish","type":"message","link":"https:\/\/www.garycombs.org\/blog\/message\/admitting-our-brokenness","title":{"rendered":"Admitting Our Brokenness"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Below is an automated transcript of this message<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1.34\">Good <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> morning,  church! We&#8217;re starting a new series today and I&#8217;m excited about it. The new series is entitled,  \u201cFrom Brokenness to Blessing.\u201d  We will be  going through the eight beatitudes, the eight blessings at the beginning of Jesus&#8217; Sermon on the Mount. These eight blessings are reflected,  not only in the Sermon on the Mount, but they&#8217;re really the basic principles for our Celebrate Recovery Ministry, which is why I have  brother Stephen Winslow here with me this morning .  He will be talking about this;  he&#8217;s the leader of our Celebrate Recovery Ministry.<br \/><br \/>(Interview with Stephen Winslow, Sr.)<br \/><br \/>We&#8217;re beginning this new series today entitled,  \u201cFrom Brokenness to Blessing.\u201d It&#8217;s exactly the opposite of worldly wisdom. It really turns worldly wisdom upside down because it basically says that admitting that you&#8217;re broken is the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"367.88\">beginning <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> of leading a life of blessing. This series is based on the eight blessings or the eight beatitudes that we find in the Sermon on the Mount.<br \/><br \/>The first beatitude is in Matthew 5:1-3 (ESV) 1 Now when Jesus saw the crowds, he went up on a mountainside and sat down. His disciples came to him, 2 and he began to teach them. He said: 3 \u201cBlessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.\u201d<br \/><br \/>It&#8217;s a big surprise. He doesn&#8217;t say \u2018blessed are the rich,\u2019 which is what the world would say or  \u2018blessed are the strong.\u2019 He says in verse 3, \u201cBlessed are the poor in spirit\u2026\u201d   It&#8217;s really kind of a surprise that we&#8217;re blessed.  The word, \u201cblessed,\u201d  comes from a Greek word, \u201cmakarios.\u201d  It  has the idea of \u201ccomplete and total contentment,\u201d  \u201ccomplete happiness,\u201d  \u201csupremely happy and blessed.\u201d  In fact, the word has,  at the root, the idea of \u201cmacro;\u201d  this idea of blessing to the \u201cmax.\u201d   <br \/><br \/>What Jesus  says here, surprises us.  If you  want to  be blessed to the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"425.179\">max,  <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>if you  want to  be supremely happy,  it begins by admitting that you&#8217;re poor in spirit and admitting that you&#8217;re broken. <br \/><br \/>Another translation says it like this,  \u201cBlessed are those who recognize they are spiritually helpless.\u201d   That&#8217;s a surprise, isn&#8217;t it? That would be the  road to blessing, the pathway to blessing, to admit that you&#8217;re spiritually helpless or as Duck Dynasty star, Jase Robertson puts it, \u201cThe first step to dealing with a problem is admitting that you have a problem.\u201d   <br \/><br \/>We all have problems. We have hurts, habits, and hangups that we can\u2019t overcome. It\u2019s like something inside of us is broken and it leaves us powerless to change. We\u2019re held captive and can\u2019t get free! Let\u2019s take a moment and consider some of the common hurts, habits, and hangups that we deal with:<br \/><br \/>HURTS: Abandonment, Abortion, Abuse, Adultery, Betrayal, Death, Divorce, Dysfunctional family, Grief, Neglect, Rape, Rejection, Unforgiveness\u2026<br \/><br \/>HABITS: Abusive behavior, Alcoholism, Drug addiction, Eating disorders, Overeating, Gambling, Gossip, Isolation, Lying, Self-harm, Sexual Integrity problems, Spending problems, Workaholism, Pornography addiction\u2026<br \/><br \/>HANGUPS: Anger, Anxiety, Arrogance, Body image, Bullying, Codependency, Control issues, Depression, Fear, Envy, Guilt, Hypochondria, Lack of self-control, Laziness, Materialism, People pleasing, Perfectionism, Pride, Procrastination<br \/><br \/>Perhaps you have been abandoned in the past <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"491.829\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> You have the fear of abandonment. Maybe there has been  an abortion in your life or in your family and you&#8217;ve experienced the grief and  the fallout that comes with that taking place. Maybe there&#8217;s abuse in your background or adultery,  betrayal or death. You lost a family member  and you still struggle with that.  Hurt, divorce, dysfunctional  family, grief, neglect, rape, rejection, unforgiveness. Who has a hurt in one of these areas?  I guarantee if we go around the room that we&#8217;ll find somebody who has one of these hurts. <br \/><br \/>What about habits? Do you have the habit of abusive behavior, so that you lose your temper and you end up being abusive verbally or maybe even physically?   Do you struggle with alcoholism,  drug addiction or  eating disorders? Overeating, gambling, gossip, isolation, lying, self harm. We  have a growing group of teenagers today that have this idea that cutting themselves will <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"554.539\">somehow <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> help them.  When I first started as a pastor, I never heard of this.   Young teenage girls,  especially,  will wear  long sleeve shirts in the summertime because they&#8217;re hiding the fact that  they&#8217;re cutting and  doing  self harm. We have these kinds of bad habits\u2013sexual integrity problems, spending problems, workaholism and  pornography addiction. Many young men or  men of any age deal with addiction to pornography today more than perhaps any other time because it&#8217;s so prevalent and available.  <br \/><br \/>What are our hang ups?  Anger; we have people that have a \u201chair trigger\u201d  with their anger.    \nAnxiety, arrogance, body image,  bullying, codependency, control issues, depression, fear, envy, guilt, hypochondria, lack of self control, laziness, materialism, people pleasing, perfectionism, pride and procrastination.  <br \/><br \/>These are just a short list of hurts, habits and hang ups that we all struggle with. The truth is, that we all are broken. How many of these problems did you <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"623.659\">circle <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> just now? Maybe,  you were afraid to circle because you were afraid the person next to you would see you circling,  but you circled it in your mind. You&#8217;re thinking,  I need help. I&#8217;m broken in this area. <br \/><br \/>What I&#8217;m saying to you today and what Jesus is saying to you today is that it is the beginning of the blessed life .  The beginning of being part of the blessed life is admitting your spiritual poverty,  that you&#8217;re poor of spirit. <br \/><br \/>The apostle Paul wrote about these feelings. In fact, when we look at Romans,  there is almost like a diary entry of what he feels like,  as one who admits that he&#8217;s poor in spirit and that he  needs help. He writes this to the church at Rome,  who he&#8217;s never met. Can you imagine being this transparent?   He&#8217;s this transparent about his brokenness. He takes us on a  journey of how he feels. In his <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"680.885\">letter <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> to the Romans, he describes  how admitting our brokenness is the first step to the life of blessing. <br \/><br \/>I believe, as we look at the text today, we&#8217;ll see three ways that admitting our brokenness puts us on the road to blessing. Let&#8217;s look at it. <br \/><br \/>Romans 7:15-25 (ESV) 15 For I do not understand my own actions. For I do not do what I want, but I do the very thing I hate. 16 Now if I do what I do not want, I agree with the law, that it is good. 17 So now it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me. 18 For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. 19 For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing. 20 Now if I do what I do not want, it is no longer I who do it, but<span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"735.713\">sin <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>that dwells within me. 21 So I find it to be a law that when I want to do right, evil lies close at hand. 22 For I delight in the law of God, in my inner being, 23 but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members. 24 Wretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? 25 Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord!  This is God&#8217;s word.  Amen. <br \/><br \/>We&#8217;re looking for three ways how admitting our brokenness moves us towards God&#8217;s blessing. Here&#8217;s the first:<br \/><br \/>1. It recognizes the REASON: Our sin nature.<br \/><br \/>It recognizes the reason for our brokenness. What&#8217;s the reason? It is  our sin nature.  That&#8217;s the reason for our brokenness.  The reason for our poverty of spirit is our sin nature. <br \/><br \/>Look at verse 17 and  circle  the phrase,  \u201csin that dwells within me.\u201d   He&#8217;s talking about the sin nature in another place. He refers to it as \u201cthe flesh\u201d  in verse 18.  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"802.929\">He <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> says, \u201cthat is, in my flesh.\u201d  <br \/><br \/>When you read in the New Testament or the Bible  about the flesh, it&#8217;s not really so much talking about your body as it is the state of your  mind, of your soul and of your heart.  Partly,  it is that old nature, the sin nature. He&#8217;s saying that&#8217;s my problem. He has a problem. It\u2019s this old nature, this sinful nature,  that wants to do wrong. <br \/><br \/>We think of the word, \u201csin,\u201d as breaking God&#8217;s law and  that&#8217;s true, but it begins with an attitude.  \u2018I want to  do it myself. I want to do it my way.\u2019  It&#8217;s an attitude of wanting to be in control. The word, sin,  literally has this meaning. It means \u201cto miss the mark.\u201d  It&#8217;s like an archery term. It means \u201cto miss the bull&#8217;s eye;\u201d to miss God&#8217;s perfect holiness for us and so,  when we talk about having a sin <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"858.099\">nature <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. We&#8217;re talking about a nature that has a natural proclivity towards doing the opposite of what God wants for us.\n  \nAll I would  have to do to demonstrate this,  all you would have to do to test this,  is to tell a toddler what to do. Just tell a toddler what to do and then watch them do the opposite of what you told them to do. You&#8217;ll see the sin nature at work. We struggle with this our whole lives. We want to be in control. We want to be the \u201cgod\u201d of our own lives. <br \/><br \/>It says, in another translation of Romans, Romans 7:18 (NLT) \u201cAnd I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. I want to do what is right, but I can\u2019t.\u201d\nPaul is admitting this. He says, \u2018I&#8217;ve got two natures. I&#8217;ve got the born again spiritual nature, but the old sin nature I still battle against and it keeps <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"915.739\">me <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> from doing what is right.\u2019  It&#8217;s the reason for our brokenness; we&#8217;re all sinners. <br \/><br \/>It says in Romans 3:23 (NLT) \u201cFor everyone has sinned; we all fall short of God\u2019s glorious standard.\u201d  How many broken people are in this room? All of us.   All of us. I saw five or six people put their hands up. The rest of you are still trying to work it out. How many broken people are in this room? I&#8217;m broken. I need Christ. It begins  the path to blessing. Maximum, complete happiness begins with admitting we  have a sin nature.   I&#8217;m broken and I can&#8217;t get there on my own. That&#8217;s the starting place. That&#8217;s the beginning. Jesus said, \u201cBlessed are the poor in spirit,\u201d  those who are poor and  impoverished spiritually,  as sinners with a sin nature. <br \/><br \/>We often put our place in the place of God. We want to be in control. We play the part of God. I&#8217;ve noticed,  in my own <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"980.179\">life <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>, that it might come out of a hurt that I had earlier in my life. I&#8217;m going to  share from my own story for just a second,  how a hurt can activate my sin nature. I&#8217;m born again. I have a spiritual nature that wants to do  right, but an old hurt that hasn&#8217;t completely been given to the Lord and dealt with can raise its ugly head and trigger my sin nature. Let me give you an example:<br \/><br \/>When I was eight years old, my father,  at age 39,  died.   He had fought the cancer battle for over a year and the Lord took him home.  I&#8217;m the oldest of four children. From then on, I had in my mind that  I&#8217;m the oldest and I need to control my environment. I need to control it so that  bad stuff doesn&#8217;t happen again because the worst awful thing that I could ever contemplate as an eight year old was to lose my daddy.  I wanted to control my environment and I didn&#8217;t want to lose my <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1037.589\">mother <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. I wanted to control as much as I could; I desired security, order and control. I didn&#8217;t know that that&#8217;s what I was doing; I just had a  little eight year old brain. I didn&#8217;t know what I was doing, but  based on a hurt, it was causing me to have anxiety. It was causing me to  move towards perfectionism and  these different kinds of things,  trying to order my world. <br \/><br \/>Now, what was I doing? I was playing the part of God in my life. I was trying to be in control. What I&#8217;ve realized,  through the years,  is I can still get into that mode again. I can get blindsided by it and it&#8217;ll trigger the sin nature,  which is dead in me. It&#8217;s crucified.  <br \/><br \/>You can think of it like clothing.   Am I gonna put on my \u201choly clothes of righteousness\u201d  today and walk in the power of the Holy Spirit or am I just going  slip into those <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1094.51\">old <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> dirty clothes I have laying over there  called the old sin nature. Sometimes,  without thinking about it, I can slip back into that old way of thinking and all of a sudden, I find myself trying to be in control again. Then, I feel anxious.  What I&#8217;m learning is,  Wait a minute. I recognize this territory. Why am I anxious right now? Why am I upset? Why am I worried? <br \/><br \/>Like Jesus said to Martha when she was worried about her sister preparing the meal. \u201cMartha, Martha, you are worried about many things, but only one thing is needed.\u201d  Gary, Gary, you&#8217;re worried about many things. You&#8217;re trying to be in control and make this happen.  Only one thing is needed and one thing is  Jesus. I have to catch myself occasionally. Maybe I&#8217;m quicker at it now<span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1156.31\">as <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> I grow in Christ. I&#8217;m more quickly able to see this , to recognize that my sin nature is triggered by these things. <br \/><br \/>We try to control things, we try to control our image.   We have  a social media thing called,  \u201cFacebook,\u201d and I see people do it all the time. They take a  picture of themselves and \u201cwork on it.\u201d They will  do some \u201cphotoshopping\u201d and  put that photo up on Facebook. They make everybody believe that is what they really look like. What they are trying to do is control their image. <br \/><br \/>We try to control these things. Will you recognize the reason for your brokenness today? Would you admit to God, I&#8217;m broken. I have a sin nature. I need help. Are you willing to look in the mirror and recognize your own problem? The first <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1209.109\"> way <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> way that admitting our brokenness moves us towards God is that we look and admit:  I&#8217;ve got a sin nature. I&#8217;ve got a problem. <br \/><br \/>Here\u2019s the second way:  <br \/><br \/>2. It acknowledges the RESULTS:<br \/><br \/>It acknowledges our results;  the results of being broken. When you admit it, you&#8217;re acknowledging that someone else didn&#8217;t do this to me. It&#8217;s  part of my sin nature. <br \/><br \/>Let me list some of them to you: <br \/><br \/>Powerless to change. Paul is going to build to a climax here. He&#8217;s gonna talk about what it&#8217;s like for him.  He has  this sin nature that&#8217;s at  war against my new nature in Christ. He is feeling  powerless to change. <br \/><br \/>Look what it says in verse 18.  He says,  \u201cFor I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1261.0\">ability <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> to carry it out.\u201d  He is saying,  \u2018I feel unable.  I feel powerless. I feel poor in spirit to  do the thing that I feel called to do. I&#8217;m unable to work it out.\u2019<br \/><br \/> Who could say that today?  I&#8217;ve got this.   I\u2019ve got this hurt that I&#8217;ve been clinging to my whole life. I&#8217;ve got this habit I&#8217;ve been trying to break. In fact, I&#8217;ve had it so long. I&#8217;ve just decided that  that&#8217;s just the way I am and I&#8217;ve just settled. I&#8217;m a worry wart. My mother was a worry wart. Her mother was a worry wart. And as far as I know, her mother&#8217;s mother was a worry wart. We&#8217;re just a bunch of worry warts. <br \/><br \/>Jesus says, \u201cDo not worry.\u201d  Why are you worrying? It  is because you&#8217;re trying to be in control of an outcome, so, you&#8217;re worrying to make sure. Did you kind of follow that thread back? Yes, that&#8217;s the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1321.18\">sin <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> nature being triggered because anxiety is the opposite of faith. It&#8217;s the opposite of trust.  Fear and anxiety go together. Think about that habit of worry and decide to  break it.  Stop saying that you are a \u201cworry wart\u201d and start saying, \u201cI can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.\u201d <br \/><br \/>Bad habits.  Paul  goes on to verse 19 and he says,\u201dFor I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing.\u201d  If you keep on doing something, what&#8217;s that called? It\u2019s  called a habit. It&#8217;s evil, so it&#8217;s a bad habit. Paul has some bad habits that keeps  on doing. He doesn\u2019t want to do them but he  keeps on doing them. Things <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1382.609\">are<i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>getting worse in the way he&#8217;s describing this.  This is like a \u201cpage from his diary\u201d that he&#8217;s sending to the church in Rome. He&#8217;s being very transparent with them about this battle between the old man and the new man, the old nature and the new nature, the sin nature of the flesh and the new nature of being born again in the Spirit. Paul says, \u2018I feel powerless\u2019 and \u2018I feel like I have bad habits.   I can&#8217;t stop doing them.\u2019 <br \/><br \/> Frustration.  Look at verse 23, \u201cbut I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin that dwells in my members.\u201d He\u2019s  talking about this war between the old nature and the new nature. He&#8217;s using two kinds of metaphors here. One is a metaphor of war; another is a metaphor of imprisonment. He feels imprisoned.  He&#8217;s captive. He&#8217;s in slavery to this habit, hurt and hang <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1447.63\">up <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. He can&#8217;t break free from it. He\u2019s  frustrated. He feels like he&#8217;s at war and it comes to a head like an explosion. It gets worse and worse. <br \/><br \/>Miserable.  He explodes in verse 24, \u201cWretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death?\u201d   I&#8217;m powerless. I have bad habits. I&#8217;m frustrated and I&#8217;m miserable. Miserable is  what \u201cwretched\u201d  means. We don&#8217;t use that word a lot in modern English, but it means miserable, beaten down, afflicted and  very poor. He says, \u2018I&#8217;m poor.  I&#8217;m wretched. Who&#8217;s going to deliver me?\u2019 You see, Paul understands something. This is the path to a blessed life\u2013to cry out, to admit that he is  broken and needs help. That&#8217;s where it&#8217;s so difficult for us because of our pride and because of our coping and our cover up.  We don&#8217;t want to admit that we need help.<br \/><br \/>In Romans chapter six, it describes the chief result of sin, <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1528.3\">which <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> is death. It says, Romans 6:23 (ESV) \u201cFor the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.\u201d   Our Lord&#8217;s death is the wages for our sin. <br \/><br \/>Paul says , \u201cWho will deliver me from this body of death?\u201d  There&#8217;s little \u201cdeaths\u201d  all through our lives, if we&#8217;ll admit it. The \u201cdeath\u201d  of our dreams, the \u201cdeath\u201d  of a marriage, the \u201cdeath\u201d  of some relationship. These little \u201cdeaths,\u201d  all throughout life,  come because of the sin nature.   Death is God&#8217;s enemy because God is  the author of life. Paul is wondering who is going to  get him  out of this death spiral.  <br \/><br \/>David talked about this in the Psalms;  Paul&#8217;s not the only one. Look at what David says,  Psalm 32:3-5 (TLB) 3 There was a time when I wouldn\u2019t admit what a sinner I was. But my dishonesty made me miserable and filled my days with frustration. 4 All day and all night your hand was heavy on me.<span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1595.359\">My <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>strength evaporated like water on a sunny day 5 until I finally admitted all my sins to you and stopped trying to hide them. I said to myself, \u201cI will confess them to the Lord.\u201d And you forgave me! All my guilt is gone.<br \/><br \/>Have you done that? Have you admitted to the Lord or  are you still going through that season where you&#8217;re miserable?  Are you in this desert land, just thirsty for something better? <br \/><br \/>In Luke chapter 15, we read the Parable of the Prodigal Son. The son went to his father and asked for his  father to give him his portion of the inheritance. His father gave it to him and he left and moved to a foreign land. He spent all that his father had given him on riotous living so that he had nothing. So, he hired himself out to a gentile who put him to work, feeding the pigs. It just so happened, coincidentally during that period, that a famine struck the land and he <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1665.609\">was <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> hungry. He would look at the pig food and the pigs groveling in the mud,  eating pig food.  His stomach would groan. The pig food was starting to become appetizing to him. He was Jewish young man and pork was something he was denied even eating, but there he was,  wanting to eat pig food. It was at that moment, the scripture says,  that he came to himself. He came to his senses.  He says, \u2018I will arise and I will go back to my father because even the servants in my father&#8217;s house are living better than this.\u2019  He goes back and the father accepts him, but first, he has to hit \u201cbottom.\u201d  <br \/><br \/>There&#8217;s a different \u201cbottom\u201d  for everybody. Before you&#8217;ll come to your senses, you have to recognize that the \u201cpig food\u201d  is not for you.  You don&#8217;t need to be down in the mud; there is    something better for you.  There&#8217;s a blessed life that God <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1731.89\">promises <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>.  It&#8217;s better. But, often we have to hit \u201cbottom\u201d  before we&#8217;ll look up. <br \/><br \/>There was a young man who had a wife, a family and a great job. He received an injury and he was prescribed Percocet.  He lost his mother a couple of years before that and  was still grieving that loss. He was working a very challenging job. Percocet helped him with his pain, but it also helped him cope with his grief and the load of life. He liked it and he kept taking it.   Then,  he started doing illegal things to try to get more of the drug. His boss started noticing a change at work, but he was such a great employee that he was sent off for six weeks,  hoping he could get help. He came back and after a season of looking pretty good, he got back on Percocet again. Then,  his wife left him and  took the kids.   He lost his job again; the second time they didn&#8217;t give <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1796.16\">him <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the help.   His life began spiraling. He kept hitting a \u201cbottom\u201d and then a lower \u201cbottom\u201d and then another lower \u201cbottom.\u201d It was hard to watch. Finally,  having lost everything except his life, he finally turned back to the Lord because he knew the Lord the whole time. <br \/><br \/>That battle between the sin nature and the spiritual nature is fierce.  You must bring it to Jesus. If you&#8217;re still trying to be in control, if you&#8217;re still trying to nurse your grief and your hurt you will keep spiraling down. <br \/><br \/>Finally,  he hit the \u201cbottom.\u201d  He needed to hit it, but it was hard to watch. Finally, he looked up and got his life right. He was starting to put things together, but this past Fall, he graduated to heaven. The Lord took him home. I&#8217;m talking about my little brother.   It was hard to watch as the oldest brother, so  this is not just \u201cbook knowledge\u201d  for me. He <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1864.189\">finally <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> admitted he was broken. He finally hit \u201cbottom.\u201d <br \/><br \/>There&#8217;s a lot of \u201cbottoms.\u201d How far do you have to go? How far down into the \u201cpig pen\u201d do you have to go before you&#8217;ll say,  \u2018I&#8217;m broken.  I need help,\u2019  so that you put away all pride. You admit,  I&#8217;m powerless.  I have bad habits. I&#8217;m frustrated, I&#8217;m miserable. I&#8217;m dying here. You come to your senses and say, \u201cI will arise and go to my father. \u201c <br \/><br \/>Will you acknowledge the consequences of your sin, your brokenness?  That leads us to the final  way that admitting our brokenness puts us on the road to blessing. <br \/><br \/>3. It confesses our need for RESCUE: Jesus!<br \/><br \/>He&#8217;s our rescuer. Notice in verses 24 and 25, Paul  says,  24 \u201cWretched man that I am! Who will deliver me from this body of death? 25 Thanks be to God through Jesus Christ our Lord!\u201d Jesus will rescue you. <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1933.449\">You&#8217;re <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> not left to yourself. You have to finally admit it.   <br \/><br \/>It says in the Good News translation of that same passage, Romans 7:24 (GNT) 24 \u201cWhat an unhappy man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is taking me to death? 25 Thanks be to God, who does this through our Lord Jesus Christ!\u201d  Have you called on the Rescuer to save you? Have you done that? Have you admitted that you&#8217;re a sinner and that you need a Savior? Good. <br \/><br \/>Do you recognize that it&#8217;s not just one thing that you do, but you keep walking in it. He saved you;  now by grace, you need to depend on Him for power to live the life of walking by faith. Say,  \u2018yes,\u2019  to that.  We  have to keep being aware that the  sin nature is activated by our hurts, habits and hang ups and we  need to keep giving them to the Lord. We need to keep admitting that we need help. This is what Paul is trying to teach us here. <br \/><br \/>I&#8217;m reminded of the lyrics of <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1993.81\">a <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> song by Lauren Daigle. She&#8217;s speaking from God&#8217;s perspective as if God is saying this to her:<br \/><br \/>\u201cI hear the whisper underneath your breath\nI hear you whisper, you have nothing left\nI will send out an army to find you\nIn the middle of the darkest night\nIt\u2019s true, I will rescue you\u201d<br \/><br \/>Do you realize that God&#8217;s saying this  to you today?  He  hears you; even  if you just whisper it.  We  need rescue. You could even say it to yourself right now. Will You rescue me? I&#8217;m broken. I admit that I&#8217;m broken and I need a rescuer. He&#8217;ll rescue you;  He&#8217;ll come rushing to you. Do you know that today? The first step to a blessed, completely contented life is to admit,  I&#8217;m poor in spirit. I need a Savior. I need a Rescuer.<br \/><br \/>Our Celebrate Recovery ministry <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2062.629\">leads <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> us through eight principles. All eight of them are based on the Beatitudes,  the blessings.   It spells out an acronym. It&#8217;s a good way to remember it. <br \/><br \/>Here&#8217;s the first one.  I&#8217;ll be giving you more as these sermons as we  progress through the next few weeks:<br \/><br \/>Realize I&#8217;m not God. I admit I&#8217;m powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and my life is unmanageable.<br \/><br \/>Realize I&#8217;m not God. That&#8217;s the first principle. That&#8217;s the entry point. I&#8217;m not in control, He is. That&#8217;s the entry point to the Beatitudes. It seems that they move in sequence. You can&#8217;t jump ahead. You have to take them in order. \u201cBlessed are the poor in spirit.\u201d  Realize I&#8217;m not God.  <br \/><br \/>Would you say this? \u2018I&#8217;m powerless to change my past.\u2019  Who here can go back in time and fix something? <br \/><br \/>Have you ever had a <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2132.6\">dream <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>where you go back and change some things?  You visualize what you should have done and  what you should have said?  Dou ever have moments where you wish you could go back? If I could go back, I wouldn&#8217;t have done that. I wouldn&#8217;t have said that.  Would you admit,  I&#8217;m powerless to change my past.  I can&#8217;t go back. I need to just give that to God. I&#8217;m powerless to control other people.  <br \/><br \/>Now, I know some of you ladies, you married a \u201cfixer upper.\u201d He was on his best behavior while you were dating. Have you realized yet,  ladies, that you&#8217;re powerless to change that man? Only God can change him or her, men, if you married a \u201cfixer upper.\u201d    You can&#8217;t change anybody. Only God can change the human heart. Some of us try really  hard though. We nag and <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2190.959\">we <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> pick at them. We feel like we are helping them.   <br \/><br \/>No, you need to give it to God and say to Him,  \u2018I&#8217;m powerless to control other people. I&#8217;m powerless to cope with my harmful habits.\u2019  Do  you have a habit and you&#8217;ve actually made it part of your identity, so that you say to yourself,  Well, that&#8217;s just what I am.  That&#8217;s not your identity in Christ.   Admitting we are powerless is an act of humility. It puts us in the geographic position so God can extend His grace and blessing to us. He  can&#8217;t extend his grace and blessing to  a prideful person;  a prideful person  won&#8217;t admit that  they even need anything. You have to admit that you  need help; you have to admit that you are broken and powerless.   Then,  he can pour out His grace.<br \/><br \/>James 4:6 (ESV) \u2026\u201cGod opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.\u201d  What it requires is a sense of humility,  to just go ahead <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2271.719\">and <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> say,  \u2018I need help. I need a Savior.\u2019 <br \/><br \/>What is grace? It&#8217;s God&#8217;s gift.   It&#8217;s free. You can&#8217;t earn it. You can only request it and ask for it. He&#8217;ll give it to you if you will humble yourself and admit your need. <br \/><br \/>Some have used the word, \u201cgrace,\u201d as an acronym, God&#8217;s Redemption At Christ&#8217;s Expense. That&#8217;s grace. Grace gives you the power to change. Grace gives you the power to overcome your hurts, habits and your hang ups. What does it do for you? It empowers you. We all need God&#8217;s grace. Will you admit your brokenness and call on Jesus today? Will you ask Him for rescue? Will you admit by saying,  \u2018I&#8217;m poor in spirit, but I want to  be blessed.   Jesus, rescue me. Jesus,  help me.\u2019  <br \/><br \/>Let&#8217;s pray.   Jesus,  have mercy on us. We admit our brokenness.  We admit our powerlessness. We admit our sinfulness. We need rescue. Lord, I pray right now for that person in this room who&#8217;s never surrendered <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2353.879\">their <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> life to You. You can do it right now,  right in your seat. Just pray with me,  right where you&#8217;re at, \u2018Dear Lord Jesus,  I&#8217;m a sinner,  but I believe You died on the cross for my sins. I believe You were raised from the grave and that You live today. I invite You to come into my life and forgive me of my sin. Make me the person You want me to be. I want to follow You. I want to follow You as my Savior and  as my Lord. I believe in You. I trust You. I admit my need.\u2019  If you&#8217;re praying that prayer of faith, believing, He&#8217;ll save you and He&#8217;ll begin to do a work in your life. Others are here today and you&#8217;ve done that. You&#8217;re a believer, you&#8217;re a follower, but you still have places  in those three categories that  I mentioned that you keep taking back from the Lord. Your sin <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2413.389\">nature <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> is triggered by them and you keep falling back into them. Would you just confess it to the Lord right now and say, \u2018Lord help me. I&#8217;m powerless to change this habit,  to break this habit. I feel captive. I feel warfare at times I feel miserable instead of happy. I don&#8217;t feel like I&#8217;m blessed right now. Lord help me. Lord, I need You.\u2019 Give it to Him,  by name, whatever it is, whatever you are thinking about as the Spirit draws you right now. Surrender it to Him and say,  \u2018I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength. I depend on Your grace.\u2019 In Jesus\u2019 name, we pray. Amen.\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all have problems. We have hurts, habits, and hangups that we can\u2019t overcome. It\u2019s like something inside of us is broken and it leaves us powerless to change. We\u2019re held captive and can\u2019t get free! <\/p>\n<p>How are you doing at overcoming these hurts, habits, and hangups? For most of us, no matter how hard we try, we find ourselves powerless to break free, so we continue to be held captive by them.<\/p>\n<p>The apostle Paul wrote about these feelings of brokenness, of feeling powerless to change. In Paul\u2019s letter to the Romans, he described how admitting our brokenness can move us toward God\u2019s blessing. 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