{"id":11131,"date":"2023-01-08T14:55:08","date_gmt":"2023-01-08T19:55:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.garycombs.org\/blog\/?post_type=message&#038;p=11131"},"modified":"2023-01-20T16:56:00","modified_gmt":"2023-01-20T21:56:00","slug":"the-heart-of-the-matter","status":"publish","type":"message","link":"https:\/\/www.garycombs.org\/blog\/message\/the-heart-of-the-matter","title":{"rendered":"The Heart of the Matter"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Below is an automated transcript of this message<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2.97\">We&#8217;re <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> beginning a new sermon series today entitled, \u201cRenovate.\u201d   We&#8217;re not talking about the renovation of your house.   There&#8217;s been a huge surge in home equity loans in the past couple of years.   I guess people were home during the pandemic and they looked at their home so long they started thinking they needed to remodel.   For the last two years, according to reports,  there have been more home equity loans and home renovations than perhaps any other couple of years in the history of America.   We&#8217;re not talking about a surge in home renovations, though; we&#8217;re talking about a surgeon and heart renovation.  I&#8217;m praying that there would be a huge heart renovation in our hearts and  in this church.<br><br>In the book of Proverbs, it says, Proverbs 4:23 (ESV) \u201cKeep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.\u201d   Dallas Willard,  in his book, \u201cRenovation of the Heart,\u201d  says, \u201cWe live from our hearts.\u201d   We tend to think that if we could renovate our house, if we could renovate our job or get <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"67.72\">a <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> new job, if we could renovate our marriages by  trading that spouse for a new model,  if we could renovate something outward that we&#8217;d be happy, but that&#8217;s not the way life works. Life change doesn&#8217;t happen from the outside in, it happens from the inside out.  We live from our hearts.  <br><br>No matter where you go and no matter how you change your circumstances, there you are because you have to take your  heart with you.  If your  heart doesn&#8217;t change, there&#8217;s no real change. <br><br>What does it mean to let God renovate and transform our hearts? What does it mean to have the heart of Christ, the character of Christ?  The apostle Paul was concerned about the church and the believers at the city of Galicia.  He  was brokenhearted that,  after they came to Christ, they weren&#8217;t living in Christ.  He writes this, Galatians 4:19 (NIV) \u201cMy dear children, for whom I am again in the pains of childbirth until Christ is formed in you.\u201d  You see,  that&#8217;s that&#8217;s what Paul was praying; with his <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"142.63\">broken <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> heart.  He said, \u2018I feel like I need to give birth to this church all over again because you&#8217;re not living as if Christ lives in you.\u2019 <br><br>From birth, our character, our inner self, our heart, if you will, is being formed from the time you&#8217;re born and they slap you on the behind.   From that first cry. from suckling at your mother&#8217;s breast,  from the name that your parents give you, from the hug and the words from your father, from your siblings, from your grandparents,  from  your neighbors and the children you play within the school you attend,  this whole time, your character is being formed;  your heart is being formed,  but because we live in a fallen world, our hearts are malformed. Our character is not the character that God desires for us.  You already have a spiritual malformation of the heart, but He wants to do something new in you.   He wants to make us like Jesus.<br><br>Maybe you&#8217;re here today and you&#8217;re asking, What is God doing right now? My life is in <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"216.98\">chaos <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. It&#8217;s in an uproar.   I can&#8217;t figure out why this happened or that happened. God, what are You doing?  Do you ever pray like that? God, what are you doing? <br><br>I know what He&#8217;s doing.  He told me and if you read the Word, He&#8217;ll tell you, too.   He cares more for your character than He does your comfort. He&#8217;s making you like Jesus.  If you&#8217;ve given your life to Jesus, that&#8217;s what He&#8217;s doing. He&#8217;s making you like Jesus\u2013that&#8217;s God&#8217;s will for your life, that you would allow the heart of Christ to be your heart, so that Christ is fully formed in you.   <br><br>Our church&#8217;s invitation,  that I repeated earlier,  is to \u201cCome as you are and be forever changed by the love of Jesus.\u201d   Come as you are, but don&#8217;t stay as you are.   That&#8217;s our invitation. How are we doing on that? How do you feel like we&#8217;re doing? I hope that people are coming to <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"280.08\">faith <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> in Jesus,  not just faith not just saying, \u2018I believe,\u2019  but they&#8217;re actually following and becoming like Him.<br><br>May I say to you that it has been thirty-one years this month for me; thirty-one years since we planted this church,  with seven people in my living room,  counting me and my wife,  Robin.   Through the years,  I&#8217;ve seen people come to Jesus and experience amazing transformation in their lives,  so that their lives,  their marriages and everything about their life improves and it is so much better than they ever dreamed or hoped for.  <br><br>I&#8217;ve also seen people come and they just want this much of Jesus. They open up the door to the \u201chouse\u201d  of their heart,  if you will, and Jesus  can come in this far, but those other rooms  belong to them.  I&#8217;ve seen those very people be part of our church and there is no transformation in their lives. I&#8217;m not questioning whether or not <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"345.63\">they <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> believe,  because I can&#8217;t see their heart. <br><br>The bible says that man looks on the outward appearance but God looks on their hearts.   Only God knows our hearts.  Their marriage might be in trouble, they&#8217;re struggling with addictions, their kids are rebelling against them\u2013their lives look exactly like the lives of the people that live in the world, apart from Jesus. Why is that? Are we giving people a false promise,  a false invitation to  \u201cCome as you are and be forever changed by the love of Jesus\u201d and it&#8217;s not true? No, it is true.  It is true,  but people aren&#8217;t willing,  for whatever reason,  or they&#8217;ve misunderstood. They haven&#8217;t given every arena of their heart to  Jesus. They haven&#8217;t fully surrendered to Jesus. <br><br>Over the next eight weeks,  I pray,  as Paul prayed, that  I&#8217;m willing to give  \u201cchildbirth\u201d  again to this church.   I&#8217;m willing to give birth to this church again, so that Christ might be fully formed in you,  so that your life begins to look like the life of Jesus, that your  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"417.6\">heart <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> is broken for this and that you would be serious about following Jesus.  <br><br>Can we go on this journey together? I need it;  we all do. That&#8217;s the beginning point \u2013 admitting your feelings is the beginning of healing.   I need Jesus, do you? Are you willing to say, \u2018I want to go on this journey because I want to become more like Jesus in 2023.   I  want to  leave 2022 behind. I want less than me and more of Jesus  in me.  Mahatma Gandhi, who had looked closely at Christianity, remarked that if only Christians would live according to their belief in the teachings of Jesus, \u201cwe all would become Christians.\u201d <br><br>Do we look any different than the people outside our church?   If not,  why not?   The American evangelical church has   <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"501.55\">been <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> good at getting people into heaven, but,  how have we  been doing at getting heaven into people?  We want to get you to heaven. Absolutely. How do you do that \u2013 by faith in Jesus, but we want to get some heaven in you and in me, so that we become more like Jesus,  so that we start living like \u201ckingdom people.\u201d    <br><br>Do you want this ? Do you want this,  because I can preach my head off up here and it&#8217;ll just bounce off your ears. Jesus said, \u201cHe that has ears to hear, let him hear.\u201d  <br><br>In the apostle Paul&#8217;s letter to the Colossians, he instructed believers that,  since they had been raised to new life in Christ, God wanted to renovate their hearts. They&#8217;ve got a new life,  but now they need a new character, a new heart. He wants to give them a new heart. He wanted to write His law on their hearts, so it was <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"562.88\">no <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> longer on stone tablets but actually written on their hearts.<br><br>I believe today that we can surrender our hearts to God&#8217;s renovation,  so that Christ  is fully formed in our hearts. Let&#8217;s look at the book of Colossians,  chapter three.   We&#8217;re going to  be talking today about three ways that we can yield to what God wants to do in our hearts,  to renovate our hearts, making us more like Jesus.  <br><br>Colossians 3:1-17 (ESV) 1If then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. 2Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. 3For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God. 4When Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with him in glory. 5Put to death therefore what is earthly in you:  sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. 6On account of these the wrath of God is coming. 7In these you too once<span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"629.48\">walked <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>, when you were living in them. 8But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth. 9Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices 10and have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator. 11Here there is not Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free; but Christ is all, and in all. 12Put on then, as God\u2019s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, 13bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. 14And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony. 15 And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful. 16 Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in\n<span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"699.89\">all <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God. 17 And whatever you do, in word or deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.  This is God&#8217;s word. <br><br>HOW TO YIELD OUR HEARTS TO GOD FOR RENOVATION:\n1. Set your hearts and minds on your new life in Christ.<br><br>Notice the verb,  \u201cseek,\u201d  in verse one.  He says, \u201cIf then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God.\u201d  In the Greek imperative, these are command words \u2013 \u201cseek\u201d and \u201cset.\u201d It reminds me that, twice a year,  we reset our clocks in November,  setting  them to standard time. Then  in March,  we&#8217;ll do it again.   We&#8217;ll \u201cspring forward\u201d  and we&#8217;ll lose an hour of sleep.  We all just agree on it. We say,  \u2018okay,  we&#8217;re all just going to  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"768.49\">do <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> it.  Let&#8217;s all reset our clocks.\u2019  For a few days,  we feel a little bit out of sorts and then \u201cboom;\u201d  we reset our clocks and we say things to each other like,  \u2018I feel like I lost an hour.\u2019  You didn&#8217;t lose an hour;   you just changed your clock.   You changed your focus.  <br><br>Here&#8217;s what Paul is saying to us, in verse one, \u201cIf then you have been raised with Christ, seek the things that are above.\u201d Have you been raised with Christ? Have you received Christ as your Lord and Savior,  so that you&#8217;re born again? I pray that all of you have, but I can&#8217;t see your hearts. Only God knows.   Set your clocks on heavenly time, set your minds and your hearts on eternal things so that you have an eternal perspective and not so caught up in the temporary things of this world because your new <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"834.69\">life <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>, is hidden in Christ in God. <br><br>Verses two and three  say, \u201c2 Set your minds on things that are above, not on things that are on earth. 3 For you have died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.\u201d\n\u201cHidden\u201d  could mean \u201csafe;\u201d  you can&#8217;t lose your eternal life.   It&#8217;s hidden where nobody can steal it. That&#8217;s a good perspective. <br><br>Here&#8217;s another perspective\u2013 it&#8217;s spiritual, so it&#8217;s unseen. Your new life is already there;  Christ is at the right hand of the Father in glory and and your life radiates from Him as the source.   That new life you have is  already there;  that&#8217;s a positional truth. Positionally, you&#8217;re already there.   Experientially, you&#8217;re here, but positionally, you&#8217;re already there, so live by your positional reality rather than your experiential reality. Make a decision to set your watch on heavenly time  because you are heading there.<span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"916.92\">That&#8217;s <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> where you are headed. Go ahead and set your  watch on heavenly time; go ahead and start living like you are already there.  Your heart is already hidden in Christ. It&#8217;s already hidden in Christ, in God,  and no one can take it. He&#8217;s got it, so start living like that.  That&#8217;s where my life is. That&#8217;s where my life source is.   <br><br>Verse four says, \u201cWhen Christ who is your life appears, then you also will appear with him in glory.\u201d    There&#8217;s coming a day when the positional reality and the experiential reality will come into full alignment, because when Christ appears, you will be with Him in glory, which is already your true position but it becomes true experientially. We&#8217;re to live from the perspective that we are already there.  As we think about each other and as we gather together on a day like today, we come together immersing ourselves in that reality that the Holy Spirit is in this room and  that <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"987.59\">we <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>we are surrounded by immortal creatures. I&#8217;m talking about you and me; we have infinite value. When we come together in church like this, we immerse ourselves in the \u201ckoinonia,\u201d  the fellowship of the saints  and not only that, but in the Godhead of the Father, Son and the Holy Spirit.   We&#8217;re all in this room together.  If you don&#8217;t feel it,  then lean in closer.  If you feel like you can do without it, you need to check your heart. We need this regular gathering\u2013 we gather for encouragement and power and we scatter for proclamation and living out the body of Christ.   That&#8217;s why we&#8217;re here. This is a place where we gather to remind ourselves that  we are heaven bound, we have heaven in our hearts and our lives are  already there.<br><br>Jesus  says in  Matthew 6:33 (ESV) \u201cBut seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.\u201d All of  this stuff that you need, you know,  clothes, <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1064.8\">housing <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>,food\u2026  You need those things and He knows you need those things; seek Jesus first.<br><br>Dallas Willard says that spiritual formation follows a certain pattern. He calls it \u201cVIM;\u201d it\u2019s an acronym. You might have heard somebody say,  \u2018Well,  that person is full of vim and vigor.\u2019 It means that  they&#8217;re lively.   Dallas Willard means it as an acronym\u2013 the V stands for vision,  the I stands for intent and the M stands for means. He says that  if you want to see transformation,  you need them. <br><br>First of all, \u201cV\u201d is for vision.  You need a vision for your destination.  That&#8217;s what Paul is talking about. Your destination is Jesus and God&#8217;s will for your life is to become like Jesus, so, get a vision for that. We tend to set our vision too low.  Some of us tend to aim at what we don&#8217;t want to be;  we call it \u201csin management.\u201d  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1136.69\"> \u2018I <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> don&#8217;t feel like I can  stop sinning,  so I&#8217;m going to  try to manage my sin.\u2019 The addict says to himself,  \u2018I want to stop drinking.  I want to  stop drugging.\u2019  Their vision is not drinking or  drugging;  that vision is too low. That&#8217;s not even a vision; that&#8217;s a goal.  It&#8217;s a good goal, but all you&#8217;re thinking about is not doing something that you&#8217;re attempting  to do.   You need a better vision.  Paul says to  aim it at Jesus because,  if you get a heart like Jesus, He will manage to help you with what you drink, what you eat, what you think about and  how you feel.   Get a better vision; once you get a better vision, you say in your heart,  \u201cI see it.\u201d   Some of you might be thinking, \u2018Is that even possible?  I&#8217;ve been a Christian for a while.  Is it even possible to become more like Jesus?\u2019  Yes, it&#8217;s possible.  It&#8217;s possible for you, so you get a <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1208.23\">vision <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> for it.   You say,  \u2018I see it.\u2019 <br><br>The \u201cI\u201d is for intent.   You say,  \u2018I want it.\u2019   I want you to think about this for a second\u2013the Father is in heaven,  listening for somebody that \u201cwants it.\u201d   That&#8217;s the movement of the heart towards faith.  You don&#8217;t have to move far,  just barely \u201cstick your toe in.\u201d  He&#8217;s just looking for somebody that wants more of Jesus.<br><br>The \u201cM\u201d  stands for means.   If we don&#8217;t get a vision for wanting  to be more like Jesus and getting  the desire to say,  \u2018I want it,\u2019  then, there is  no sense in  us talking about reading through the bible together,  attending church, going to small group and all of  that stuff. \u2018I just don&#8217;t get anything out of church. Pastor, look, I signed up for this  \u201cJesus\u201d  thing. Church makes me <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1260.45\">feel <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> better.  Once in a while, I can work it into my schedule.   As far as small group, I don&#8217;t really like people very much.\u2019  People sometimes  are hard to get along with.  Church doesn&#8217;t change you. You can go stand in the garage and  it won&#8217;t make you a car. You can go stand in a church and it won&#8217;t make you a Christian.  It won&#8217;t change your heart.   I can&#8217;t change your heart. I&#8217;m just like you;  I must have Jesus, but I can cooperate with Him.  He uses certain means to help us work out what He&#8217;s working in us because grace is free. It&#8217;s opposed to earning. You can&#8217;t earn grace;  grace is opposed to earning, but it&#8217;s not opposed to effort. It takes some effort. It takes some effort to get up and get those kids in the car this morning. Some of you had a horrible fight on the way to church today. It took some effort to get here; you almost turned around.   Some of you <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1321.48\">had <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> your last argument in the parking lot and then you got out of your car and  pasted that smile on,  that Christian smile. Do you want to be more like Jesus? It begins with saying, \u2018I want it.\u2019   Let&#8217;s keep going.   The first way to yield our hearts is to set our hearts and minds on this new vision \u2013I want to be like Jesus, I desire it and  I intend to.<br><br>HOW TO YIELD OUR HEARTS TO GOD FOR RENOVATION:<br><br>2. Put off the old self, counting it dead in Christ.\n \nI want you to notice in verse five, it says, \u2018Put to death therefore what is earthly in you:\u201d In verse eight, it says, \u201cBut now you must put them all away:\u201d In  verse nine,  he says, \u201c&#8230; put off the old self\u2026\u201d You can see a couple of metaphors at work here.   Paul is using verse 5  as the metaphor of death or the metaphor of the cross\u2013 to \u201cput to death,\u201d  or,  as some versions say <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1379.67\">, <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> \u201cmortify the members of the flesh,\u201d   to kill the old self. Don&#8217;t play with it. Christianity is not a self improvement course.  It&#8217;s an invitation to \u201ccome and die\u201d and then be born again to new life. <br><br>Another metaphor used here is in verse eight and nine  \u2013 \u201cput away or put off,\u201d  which is  a kind of \u201cclothing\u201d   metaphor. Put off your grave clothes from your old dead life so that you can make room to put on some new clothes.  Put to death;  stop playing with. <br><br>Paul then goes from preaching to \u201cmeddling.\u201d  In verse 5, he says,  \u201cPut to death therefore what is earthly in you:  sexual immorality\u2026\u201d    Sexual immorality is  the mark of our age. The Greek word here  is \u201cporneia,\u201d  where we get the word \u201cporn.\u201d There&#8217;s so many men and <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1455.74\">even <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> women in our church  (I&#8217;m not talking about the people out there. I&#8217;m talking about those in our church) who are  addicted to porn.  Because it gets all of your heart, Paul  says to  \u201ckill it.\u201d   All of these are kind of aspects of the body, because the heart is the seat of the will and the heart chooses to go to the left or to the right; there are pressures on the heart. One is our thought life, another is our feelings, another is our our bodily desires and  outward pressure from peer groups. We&#8217;ll be talking about this stuff over the next few weeks. All of these seem to have a lot to do with the body\u2013sexual immorality, impurity and  passion, which is not the positive version of that word, but the negative\u2013it  could be translated an overpowering lust, evil desire and covetousness.  Paul calls this idolatry; it is  wanting, <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1522.73\">what <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> somebody else has.  Paul says to kill it;  don&#8217;t play with it.  Shoot it; stop playing with it. Kill it. Somebody might have to say, \u2018You know what?   I need to get off of Netflix and get on Pureflix or something like that because if I even see something, it triggers me to go to my porn addiction. I need to kill it.  I need to stop lying to myself.   If I really want to be like Jesus, I need to stop lying to myself instead of loving some fake image that&#8217;s not even real.\u2019  This addiction has  grasped and gotten its claws around the hearts of so many Christian men and  pastors.  <br><br>Verse 6  says, \u201cOn account of these the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1597.4\">wrath <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> of God is coming.\u201d  Verse 7, \u201cIn these you too once walked, when you were living in them.\u201d     Now, verse eight says this, \u201cBut now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and obscene talk from your mouth.\u201d  He&#8217;s more talking about the mind, the attitude of the mind. Put away anger.<br><br>There&#8217;s someone here right now and  that&#8217;s the constant state of your mind.   You stay angry; you stay offended.  Then, you move to the darker form which is wrath; you start expressing it in physical ways, in verbal ways.  The scripture says to put away malice, which is hatred.   Malice is wanting  to see something bad happen to somebody else, wanting  to see something bad happen to those people that aren&#8217;t like me or that offend me.  Slander is lying about people or telling things about people that aren\u2019t true and  shouldn&#8217;t be aired out. I&#8217;m slandering their name. Stop the obscene talk from your mouth. Yeah, but pastor,  I work construction. That&#8217;s how all the people talk. <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1670.82\">You <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> don&#8217;t know the \u201cf\u201d bombs they drop.  If I don&#8217;t talk like the other people, I&#8217;ll be considered odd. <br><br>Because you\u2019ve got your heart set on heavenly time, you&#8217;re odd. You&#8217;re a stranger in this world. \u201cYour passport is stamped for heaven.\u201d  You&#8217;re not of this world, your life is hidden in Christ, in God. You&#8217;re not supposed to talk like that anymore. Stop pretending; keep one foot  in the world and one foot like headed toward  heaven. You must  choose.  I&#8217;m not talking about whether or not you&#8217;re a believer.   I&#8217;m not challenging that. I can&#8217;t see your heart, but you&#8217;re not living like you&#8217;re a believer. Clean up your mouth.   Do not lie to one another and stop lying to yourself. <br><br>Have you put off the old self, with its practices,  and have put on <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1737.57\">the <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> new self?  You can&#8217;t put on the new self  until  you put off the old self. That&#8217;s like putting on clean clothes over dirty underwear. I&#8217;ll say anything to get your attention;  this will be the only thing you remember about the sermon. God bless you. I&#8217;m sorry. Put on the new self, which is being renewed in the knowledge after the image of its Creator. <br><br>How did God make Adam and Eve?  In Genesis 1:27, it says,  \u201cSo God created man in his own image, in the image of God created him; male and female created them.\u201d  He made them and then sin caused the image to be warped and then, He sent Jesus.   <br><br>In Colossians 1:15 it  says that He is the image of the invisible God. He is the \u201cImago Dei.\u201d   He is what we were always meant to be.   When we follow Him, He is forming us.  He is renovating us, He&#8217;s making us what he always meant for humanity to be\u2013 these immortal creatures, made in the image of <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1796.29\">God <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. That&#8217;s what he&#8217;s doing right here. Put that on, it&#8217;s better; it&#8217;s \u201cmore better.\u201d   Put off those bodily desires. Put off this state of mind, this anger, this wrath and then put off these outward identities. <br><br>Verse 11 says, \u201cHere there is not Greek and Jew, circumcised and uncircumcised, barbarian, Scythian, slave, free; but Christ is all, and in all.\u201d  There is neither black nor white, red or yellow,  republican or democrat, conservative or liberal,  yankee or southerner.   Christ is all in all. When you walked in this place and took a seat,  you were  seated with immortal creatures that are following Jesus.   Their one and only identity is inward, not outward, having a heart that beats for Jesus. That&#8217;s who they are and that&#8217;s all they care about.   All other things are secondary. <br><br>We live in an age of division and we carry it into the church. Our young people are being confused by it.   Put that off; put it <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1895.71\">off <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>.   Make room for this new heart, putting it off requires some effort, but grace is opposed to earning not effort.   Put off your old self.  <br><br>Ephesians 4:22 (ESV) \u201cput off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires.\u201d  Romans 6:11 (ESV) \u201cSo you also must consider yourselves dead to sin and alive to God in Christ Jesus.\u201d  <br><br>In John, chapter 11, one of Jesus\u2019 friends named Lazarus died.  He was in the tomb for four days  when his sister,  Martha,  came to Jesus and said,  \u201cJesus, If you would have been here, my brother would not have died.\u201d  He said to her,  \u201cDo you believe that I am the resurrection and the life?\u201d   She says, \u201cI believe it, Lord. I believe that at the last days the resurrection will come and people will be raised.\u201d   He says to her,  \u2018No,  I&#8217;m talking about now.\u2019  She&#8217;s looking at him as if to say, What are you talking about?  Jesus  goes <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"1954.14\">towards <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> the tomb and the younger sister,  Mary, comes to Him.   She&#8217;s not the pragmatist that her sister, Martha, is.   She&#8217;s weeping and Jesus,  because He&#8217;s tenderhearted, weeps.   He&#8217;s not weeping because Lazarus is dead. Jesus is the resurrection and  life. He&#8217;s not afraid of death. Death has to run from life. He&#8217;s not weeping about that. The shortest verse in the bible is, \u201cJesus wept.\u201d  He was  tenderhearted;  He sees Mary and He weeps.Then, He asks Martha where Lazarus  was  laid. him?  They take Him to the tomb  there and He says,  \u201cremove the stone.\u201d  Martha says a very graphic thing; remember, she&#8217;s practical.  The KJV version says it like this, \u201cLord, by this time he stinketh: for he hath been dead for four days.\u201d  She is talking about how the body decomposes, but Jesus is not afraid of that either. Even if your marriage is dead and stinking it doesn&#8217;t matter to Him. Jesus  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2013.96\">says <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>,  \u201cLazarus come forth.\u201d   Lazarus obeys the command to come forth.   Jesus  raises the dead because He is life.  Lazarus comes forth, but he still has a problem;  he was wrapped up in grave clothes, stinky old grave clothes.   Jesus turns to the crowd around Him and says,  \u201cTake off his grave clothes and let him go.\u201d  <br><br>We need the church. We need some help getting those stinky clothes off. Sometimes,  we don&#8217;t even know that we have them hanging on us.  We come out of the restroom with  something stuck to our  heel; we walk through the mall, thinking \u201cwe\u2019re all that and a bag of chips\u201d  and then we realize we have toilet tissue stuck to the heel of  our shoe. You&#8217;re laughing because this has happened to you.   We need each other to get the stinky clothes off. <br><br>Larry Crabb says, \u201cWhen we ignore what\u2019s happening on the inside, we lose all power to change wha<span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2075.94\">we <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>do on the outside. We rearrange rather than change, and in so doing, we never become the transformed person God calls us to be.\u201d  We need heart change. <br><br>HOW TO YIELD OUR HEARTS TO GOD FOR RENOVATION:<br><br>3. Put on the new self, which is being renewed in Christ.<br><br>We have a new perspective\u2013 put on the new self, which is being renewed in Christ. Verse 10 hints at this: \u201cand have put on the new self, which is being renewed in knowledge after the image of its creator.\u201d  Then in verse 12, he begins to tell us what that looks like: \u201cPut on then, as God\u2019s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassion, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience,\u201d  What does it look like to put on the new self? We see in verse 12 that he says to  \u201c \u201cput on then.\u201d If you have put off the old self and if you have put on the <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2125.95\">new <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> self, we&#8217;ll put some of these articles of clothing on because they&#8217;re part of the ensemble. <br><br>What are some of the features?   \u201cPut on then,  as God&#8217;s chosen ones\u2026\u201d That&#8217;s who you are now;  you are in Christ,  in God.   You&#8217;re God&#8217;s chosen people, holy and beloved, put on compassionate hearts. Get some compassion and  kindness;  put on some kindness, put on some humility. Get some  meekness and patience;  put on a little patience, put on compassionate hearts.   Learn to bear with one another;  literally,  learn to put up with one another. That&#8217;s some great marriage counseling right there. Learn to put up with it because you&#8217;re a mess too. We&#8217;re all sinners saved by grace, so learn to bear with one another.  Stop being so easily offended all the time. In fact, become unoffendable because your identity is so hidden in Christ, in God, that  nobody can touch your life. <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2210.76\">It&#8217;s <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> hidden in Christ,  in God.   That&#8217;s who we are;  that&#8217;s our identity. No one can touch our  identity; no one can tell  us who we are  or where  we are headed. Weknow who we are; we know where we are  headed, not because we are somebody but  because He&#8217;s somebody and that somebody lives in us.<br><br>Verse 13, \u201cbearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.\u201d  Before you even meet,  already decide to forgive.  \u201cAs the Lord has forgiven you;\u201d  draw on that. Verse 14, \u201cAnd above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.\u201d After you put all that on,  put on love.  It just makes the whole ensemble look good together. Put on love because it binds it all together in perfect harmony. It&#8217;s the outward garment. If you want to know the chief thing of all, it&#8217;s love.   Put  love  on and then let the peace of Christ dwell richly in you.  <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2288.82\">It\u2019s  <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> in the imperative. Well,  it sounds like it because it is going to require effort not earning.  You can&#8217;t earn it. <br><br>Here&#8217;s the thing\u2013He&#8217;s made all of these clothes already.   Jesus has made them all. They&#8217;re all hanging in His heavenly closet. Here&#8217;s some patience\u2013look at that; it\u2019s  brand new for 2023. Just reach into your heavenly closet,  because you&#8217;re already there, and pull out some patience.   That requires some effort not earning because you didn&#8217;t buy it.  Your heavenly Father bought it through the purchase of the redemption of Jesus by grace. \u201cYou are saved through faith not of yourselves, it&#8217;s a gift of God, not as a result of works so that no man should boast.\u201d The next verse says, \u201cWe are God&#8217;s workmanship created in Christ Jesus to do good works.\u201d Let&#8217;s put on some patience.   Let&#8217;s put on compassionate hearts.  Let&#8217;s put on some forgiveness. It requires some effort; we have  to reach in there and get it.   We can&#8217;t earn <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2351.53\">it <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> but we can reach in there and get it. <br><br>God,  I have a bad habit of yelling at my children. They just get to me sometimes.  They push all of my buttons and I just lose my temper.  I&#8217;ve just been excusing it saying, \u2018well, that&#8217;s how I was raised and that&#8217;s just me.\u2019 That&#8217;s the old self;  don&#8217;t play with it.  Shoot it, kill it, get it off or put it away if it&#8217;s part of those grave clothes.  Put on patience.  I am the \u201cnew me.\u201d   People don&#8217;t get to me anymore. My kids don&#8217;t get to me like they used to.   When I feel that happening, when I feel the old self trying to get my heart again, I get a hold of Jesus and I reach back in my heavenly closet.  The new me doesn&#8217;t yell at my kids <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2424.07\">now <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. <br><br>Verse 15,  \u201cAnd let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body. And be thankful.\u201d  The word, \u201crule,\u201d  could be translated from the Greek word,  \u201cumpire,\u201d  so if you feel something stealing your peace or you&#8217;re starting to feel anxiety or you&#8217;re starting to feel worry, you can kill it. You can throw it outside the house and put on prayer because the bible says,  \u201cDo not be anxious about anything but in everything by prayer and petition, make your request be  known to God.\u201d Turn your worries  into prayer.  Worry is not a bad habit.   Jesus says, \u201cDo not worry.\u201d Worry is the opposite of faith.   Yeah, but I come from a long line of worrywarts.  My grandmother was a worry wart.   My mother was a worrywart and I, too,  have followed suit. I am a worry wart.   What you&#8217;re saying is that  your grandmother was a sinner, your mother was a sinner and you are  a sinner too.   That&#8217;s what you&#8217;re saying, so don&#8217;t play with <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2479.67\">it <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>.   Kill it, throw it outside; \u201cumpire\u201d it.  This \u201cumpire\u201d   is the peace of Christ.  It  is like an umpire. That&#8217;s a ball,  Don&#8217;t swing at that one. That&#8217;s a ball; it  will cause you to lose your peace.  Verse 15 says to  be thankful; this is  not a suggestion. Yeah,  but I don&#8217;t feel thankful. Okay,  check your heart. Why don&#8217;t you feel thankful? You&#8217;re supposed to be thankful.   If you have the heart of Jesus, you&#8217;re thankful. <br><br>Verse 16,  \u201cLet the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God.\u201d  How do you get God\u2019s word in you?  There&#8217;s only two ways: Through <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2533.97\">your  <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> \u201ceye gate\u201d and your \u201cear gate.\u201d  That&#8217;s the only way to get the word of Christ in you so that it lives in you richly. You need to  read it and you need to hear it.  If you read it aloud, you get it through both \u201cgates\u201d  simultaneously. You get a \u201ctwofer\u201d out of it if you read it aloud. You need to memorize  large doses of God\u2019s Word before it will live in you richly, dwell in you richly.  That way,  you can teach and admonish one another because that&#8217;s the way we&#8217;re supposed to live.   We&#8217;re supposed to sharpen each other and  help each other.  We\u2019re to get that piece of toilet paper off their heel when they&#8217;re coming out of the restroom.  We are  supposed to help each other grow more like Jesus  and the way you do it is with the word of God.   Not with your words and your opinions, but with His. <br><br>When we get <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2578.31\">together <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>, we&#8217;re supposed to sing psalms,hymns and spiritual songs. That&#8217;s three types of songs. We do our best to try to cover all types of songs. Some of you come late because you don&#8217;t like the singing part. This is not a suggestion. You get the word of Christ dwelling in you richly as you sing it. Yeah, but I don&#8217;t have a good voice. I don&#8217;t see that here. I don&#8217;t see, \u2018except if you don&#8217;t have a good voice.\u2019 I want to hear some bad singing next Sunday. I want somebody next to me that may be singing off key,  but with tears flowing down their  face because they  love Jesus and they  don&#8217;t care who hears their voice.  They  don&#8217;t care who sees their hand go up.  They  don&#8217;t care who as long as He sees.  Sing and do it with thankfulness in your heart.  <br><br>Paul says that whatever you do,  do everything, like, you could sign Jesus\u2019 name to <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2650.15\">it <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span>. If you  are a teacher,  teach those kids like you could sign that Jesus did it. If you work at a construction company,  whatever that is you are building or whatever that is you are digging,  it looks like something Jesus did.   He could sign His name to your work.  If you&#8217;re a CEO of a company, lead that company like Jesus is leading it.   Whatever you do, let your heart beat for Jesus,  so that everything you do is an expression of praise, glory and worship. <br><br>Don&#8217;t just worship on Sunday.  Worship seven days a week with all that you say and you do.   Romans 13:14 (ESV) \u201cBut put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to gratify its desires.\u201d   Philippians 2:12-13 (NKJV) \u201c\u2026work out your own salvation with fear and trembling; for it is God who work s in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.\u201d  His <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2712.32\">grace <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> is already at work in you. Your part is to work it out. <br><br>That&#8217;s what we&#8217;re going to  be talking about for the next few weeks in our daily journal.   Let\u2019s  work out what God&#8217;s working in us and know what the goal is\u2013 for our  lives  to start looking like the life of Christ in this world. <br><br>Will you make a commitment over the next eight weeks, as we begin to talk about our thought life, our feelings, our body, our will, our social relationships and our identity?   We&#8217;re going to  be talking about all of  these things. Will you  make a commitment to really lean in on these eight messages and do the 40-day journey of the daily journal.  I highly recommend you commit to being in a small group, a community group,  where you can \u201cunpack\u201d it with other people and really talk about what you&#8217;re learning. I&#8217;m asking you to do that. I hope you&#8217;ll do that <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2769.97\">. <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> <br><br>Let&#8217;s close in prayer. Lord Jesus, thank You for Your word.   Lord, would You  break, remold and renovate our hearts so that we become more like You?  If you want this,  my friend,  right where you are,  tell the Lord that you  want it. You  want to be like Jesus.  If you&#8217;re here today and you&#8217;ve never given your life to Him, the first part is to want it and then, in wanting it, you say, \u2018I believe it and I repent of my sin. I don&#8217;t want the life I used to have.   I want a new life in Jesus.  I believe He died for me and that He was raised from the grave and that He lives today. I believe He died for my sins, so I could live as a follower and as a child of God.\u2019  If you believe that you can express it in your heart right now.  Just say,  \u2018I believe it <span class=\"messageTimecode\" title=\"Play the video starting here\" data-timecode=\"2829.07\">and <i class=\"fa fa-volume-up\"><\/i><\/span> I receive it. I want Him as my Lord and Savior.\u2019  Others are here and you&#8217;ve done that. You&#8217;ve received and you believe in Jesus, but you recognize you haven&#8217;t been following Him. You&#8217;ve been holding back parts of your life. Would you do something about that right now and say, \u2018Lord forgive me. I give You (fill in the blank.) I give You my anger. I give You my addiction. I kill it. I leave it behind. I give You my obscene language.  Take it away and don&#8217;t just take it away,  but replace it with that new aspect of Your heart\u2013patience, love, joy, peace and kindness.   Lord make me more like You.\u2019  We pray it all now in Jesus&#8217; name. Amen\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all tend to think that if we could renovate our house, or our job, or our marriage, or our &#8230;, then we\u2019d be happy, but the truth is that life is not lived from the outside &#8211; in, but from the inside &#8211; out. We live from our hearts. So what does it mean to let God renovate, to transform our hearts? 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